The latest Māori Television Shows: Ahikāroa

At just 36, TV executive Te Ataraiti Waretini has spent the past year as the CEO of the production company Kura Productions creating māori television shows. She’s responsible for producing a slew of TV shows in te reo Māori and told from a Māori perspective, including the very popular drama, Ahikāroa, which currently screens on Whakaata Māori and TVNZ OnDemand.   

Te Ataraiti never imagined that she would be running her own production company in her 30s and given this amazing opportunity to uplift the status of Māori storytelling in film and māori television shows.

“I’ve always wanted to work in the TV industry. I did a test in front of the camera in the early stages of my career, and I couldn’t handle it. I realised then that working in the production side of TV was more suited to my personality,” she says.   

Te Ataraiti, of Tūhourangi-Ngāti Wāhiao, Tainui, and Te Rarawa iwi, spent her childhood in Rotorua and grew up speaking fluent te reo Māori. After the death of her father, Kuru Waretini. when she was a teenager, she moved to Auckland with her whānau so her mother, Maria, could help her grandmother, Anita Bassett with the family funeral business.  


 Te Ataraiti Waretini who created the latest Maori television show

“Yes, I grew up around coffins,” she says.   

When she left her Auckland high school, Te Ataraiti completed a TV degree at AUT University before gaining work as a production co-ordinator on TV shows like Marae DIY. She started work at Kura Productions as a junior before moving overseas to the UK for her big OE.   

While in London, she gained experience working on international productions for MTV and Nickelodeon and discovered that the production skills that she learned were transferable to an international workplace.   

“What I learned from a Māori world could exist in a Pākehā world. It wasn’t different at all.”   

Living in London gave Te Ataraiti the time to discover herself and appreciate her culture.    

“I knew no one in the UK at first, so I could behave in a way that I felt I was more myself. I didn’t have this weight of responsibility to perform. I learned what I wanted to do in the world,” she says.   

“What I also took away from being overseas was that te ao Māori was really important to me. If I didn’t have my culture, the fulfilment of my life wouldn’t be so great.”  

Te Ataraiti joined the London-based kapa haka group, Ngāti Rānana, while she was in the UK. Her involvement in the group provided her with some amazing opportunities, like travelling all around Europe and getting to meet and advise Prince Harry and his wife Megan Markle at various formal ceremonies. 

 Te Ataraiti Waretini who created the latest Maori television show

“There’s a lot of privileges that being Māori over there can bring you. You can get to be an ambassador for te ao Māori and Aotearoa.”  

Te Ataraiti’s mother is an experienced flax weaver, and although she learned to make small items as a child, it was something Te Ataraiti never pursued. Te Ataraiti decided to learn the traditional art form in the UK, via online lessons with her mother in New Zealand,  just so she could reconnect to her home and culture while she was living overseas.   

“I discovered this new passion, and it gave me a lot of fulfilment that I hadn’t felt in a very long time. Raranga (wearing) helped me find myself and made me feel like a complete person. It was therapeutic. It taught me how to be a better storyteller, looking into the deeper meaning of the kaupapa and understanding the why and the feelings.”  

She has become so successful in the art of weaving that last year Te Ataraiti was selected to showcase at the Indigenous Fashion Arts Festival in Toronto.   

After eight years of living in the UK, Te Ataraiti returned to New Zealand just before the Covid-19 pandemic, to be closer to her whānau.   

She returned home armed with the new skills that she learned working on overseas productions. She returned to Kura Productions, a company that’s in a joint venture with South Pacific Pictures, the makers of Shortland Street and The Brokenwood Mysteries.  

“My production experience in the UK made me understand what I wanted to see here in Aotearoa, also knowing the systems and processes and how we can staircase our people coming into this industry and make it easier for them to stay,” she explains.   

When Te Ataraiti was given the reins to lead Kura Productions and was promoted to  the company’s CEO, she knew that she had important work to achieve.   

 Te Ataraiti Waretini who created the latest Maori television show


“It’s encouraged me to work hard and be part of the change, to bring Māori stories to our screens.”  

This is achieved through Kura Production’s most popular māori television shows, Ahikāroa, which this week launched its fifth season and has an online viewership in the millions.   

The youth drama is partially in te reo Māori and is written and made by young Māori. It follows a group of city-based, kura kaupapa-raised rangatahi navigating their lives in a modern world.   

“Making content, like Ahikāroa, is helping us to cut through the noise of a saturated market and normalising our Māori culture. We’re also helping more Māori in the industry who want to be storytellers. We’ve had so many people come into our show and step up and get experience on our set. We’re normalising ourselves on the screen but also behind the camera as well.”  

Te Ataraiti’s success follows on from the many wāhine Māori who are making a huge impact in the film and māori television show industry. The likes of the recently announced CEO of the NZ Film Commission, Annie Murray, and the General Manager of Local Content at TVNZ. Nevak Rogers, who are both Māori women. There are also many other successful Māori women who are running their own film and TV production companies.   

“I’m inspired by seeing all these wāhine Māori in pivotal places in our industry. When you have friends in the industry that you can call upon for advice and guidance, it means that you’re in a really good position.”   

Season Five of Ahikāroa latest māori television shows currently screens on Thursdays on Whakaata Māori at 9:30pm. 


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Air – Film Review – Go see it.

The sneaker is arguably the essential fashion development of the past fifty years. Sneaker shops pepper every city, sneakerheads declare legendary kicks ‘grailed’ (as in the Holy Grail), and Air Jordans are the sturdiest investment in the shoe economy. So where is the prestige sneaker drama? The sneakerhead’s answer to a Coco Chanel biopic? From director Ben Affleck and Amazon Studios, Air aims to fill that hole with corporate synergy.

The film opens with a fatty montage of eighties pop media iconography. Old MTV footage dissolves into Bono, Ghostbusters, and an Apple Macintosh commercial. 2023 recedes from view as the film submerges us in a tank of nostalgic Americana. The year is 1984. Reagan is in. The economy is up. “Greed, for want of a better word, is good.” 

Air film cover image featuring Matt Damon, Ben Affleck and Marlon Wayans


Cut to Sonny Vaccaro (Matt Damon) perched on the edge of a high school basketball game. He’s a schlubby guy. Matt Damon does good schlubby. Sonny is in marketing at Nike, and he’s a basketball fanatic. His job is to sign popular players to endorsement deals, but there are problems. For one, Nike isn’t cool. Nike makes running shoes and running shoes aren’t cool. Adidas is cool. Two, Nike doesn’t have the majority market share in basketball shoes. That’s Converse. Three, Nike is looking to close the basketball shoe division if business doesn’t pick up. The way things are going, Sonny could soon be out of the one job he’s qualified to do. 

Air tells the true story of how Sonny Vaccaro signed Michael Jordan to an endorsement deal with Nike and invented the Air Jordan, revolutionising the economics of pro sport. The tale of how underdog Sonny bucked the rules by bypassing Jordan’s agent and going straight to his mother, Deloris, who Viola Davis portrays as an unassailable stoic. And the myth of how Nike, with proudly American vision, enabled this to happen. The film turns on Sonny’s ability to recognise greatness. He’s a basketball Nostradamus who can predict a player’s career from debut to death. He knows who will make it to NBA stardom and who will end up a second string player in an international league. Consequently, there’s little question that Sonny, Nike, and Jordan will exit victorious. 

A soothing quality flows through any Hollywood film which signposts its tale this unambiguously. It’s not about history. It’s about seduction. And Air seduces, with glistening crane shots and throbbing eighties synth bangers. The story is so superfluous that two consecutive scenes have Sonny getting a pep talk from an old friend. One would have sufficed, but then we wouldn’t have been able to enjoy a smoke-filled bar and an eighties office in the rain.

Like many biopics, the script stuffs the dialogue with nuggets of trivia. We are told about the origins of the swoosh and the meaning of “Just Do It”. We learn that Sonny founded the first college All-Star Game and that basketball coach George Raveling (Marlon Wayans) owns the original text of Martin Luther King’s “I Have A Dream” speech. The soundtrack is full of pulls from the likes of Cyndi Lauper and Bruce Springsteen, expensive luxuries like a pair of Air Jordans. Jason Bateman, Chris Tucker, and Matthew Maher are premier picks for supporting roles, but there is no meaningful indication that any of these Nike executives have home lives or hobbies. Celebrated Nike founder Phil Knight (Ben Affleck) likes to run. I suppose that’s  something. 

Director Affleck gives brief lip service to this feel-good story’s moral challenges. Rob Strasser (Jason Bateman), the Springsteen-loving manager, has an apologetic monologue about Nike’s use of sweatshop labour. Rather than complicate the story, this monologue takes such responsibility out of the viewer’s hands. “We’ll worry about the ethics so you can get on with buying the shoes”. 

Sonny’s prescience about the future of basketball leaps beyond the winking one-liners of most period films. Maybe the real Sonny Vaccaro did predict Michael Jordan’s domination of the game and basketball’s shift into America’s most popular sport. But by positioning Sonny, and to a lesser extent Deloris, as having access to 21st-century knowledge, the film allows us to identify with them. They know what’s coming, as do we. 

With any historical drama, it’s worth asking what this story has to say to the present. It takes little stretch of the imagination to see how Air appealed to the executives at Amazon Studios. The film’s triangulation of Nike, Converse, and Adidas echoes Amazon’s rivalry with Netflix and Disney. The presentation of Nike as an underdog, a ‘disruptor’, massages Amazon’s media identity as a fresh alternative to traditional retail. 

Ultimately, Air is about desire. The desire for power (Nike), the desire for greatness (Michael Jordan), and the desire for style (Air Jordan). When we finally get to see the iconic sneaker, after ninety minutes of build-up, the moment is scored to music lifted from a striptease scene in the eighties erotic thriller Body Double. It’s an obscure needle drop that signals how we’re supposed to feel about the reveal. This shoe is a sexy lady. 

Air is smooth like butter, a two-hour commercial for an undeniably desirable product. Because we know what’s coming, the stakes are never too high. Instead, Air lets you get comfortable in a warm bath of style, beats, and nostalgia. Air isn’t going to give you much to chew over, but as far as pleasure goes, it’s a slam dunk. 



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April Energy Forecast With Soul 33’s Gaia Chinniah

Using the energetic cycles and seasons to set your goals, heal and manifest what you want in life is such a powerful tool to help us to navigate life daily without resistance. To use the April Energy forecast, review once in its entirety and then at the beginning and end of each week remind yourself what the energy of the week is asking of you.

April Energy Forecast Week 1 : April 1 – 9

We start the month with positive changes in the April energy forecast. Passions are asking to be reawakened and passion in general for life, relationships and within yourself for all you wish to create. If you feel like you have had to conform or be a certain way, it is time to break out of these rigid ways. Take expectations away and work on things that will cultivate your passions. Do you know what your passions are? Start or work on a creative project where you can see gradual results. There is a real focus on changing something in your physical world that is going to give you substance and deeper oneness in life. Your belief in yourself to complete tasks or missions are being supported with the energy of Mother Earth. If we love what we do and make future plans based on this, you are guaranteed success.

Full Moon – April 6 in Libra

The full moon to begin the month is a pink moon, a time to release self-imposed restrictions so your true essence can be restored. Release the fears that make you afraid of who you who are or who you want to be. All expectations that do not serve you are what will be addressed or brought up for healing at this time. What expectations have you set that make it harder to feel joy in life? Expect these to be amplified at this time for their identification and release.

Card of the week : Divine masculine/ feminine

April Energy Forecast
April Energy Forecast Week 1 Card:
This card comes up for the week as balance for the full moon in libra is asking to be addressed. The balance is in how much you have been trying to control things, which is masculine energy with your feminine energy which is how much you release the grip of the rope to reveal your true creative expression. It may be that your feminine energy needs to feel supported and safe in order to be yourself or your masculine needs some boundaries set. Either way balance is being restored.


April Energy Forecast Week 2 : April 10 – April 16

The energy of forecast of Easter arrives after the full moon, a time to bring about a new hobby or one that has not been actively pursued in a while. There is real support and backing for you to express yourself, taking last week’s passion and turning it into beauty in your life. How can you make your life more beautiful and more passion fueled?

A traditionally spiritual week with Good Friday, there is also a collective sense of being renewed with hope and faith restored. Put your worries aside and see yourself as a partner to yourself.  Rather than looking externally for partnership – how can you speak to yourself?  Support yourself? And take the journey within and celebrate your life?

There are delights that await you when you begin to see that any separation is an illusion. Centre and align your soul and self to be one this week. If you believe in angels – arch angel Michael is there to call upon as a spiritual warrior to help you.



Card of the week: Sacred

April Energy Forecast
April Energy Forecast Week 2 Card:
A week infused with a sacred essence of the angels and reminding you that you are supported. You are being asked to make your life beautiful by looking at your experience as sacred lessons and choices that delight you.


Week 3: April 17 – April 23

Time to make some decisions this week, you may be feeling more sensitive than usual and that is not bad thing. Take some time to withdraw and retreat from anything that is harsh and overly stimulating. This sensitivity is to help you come back to yourself rather than getting overloaded with external energies. You will find your own mental clarity by thinking and feeling for yourself. Mercury Retrograde sets in this week which means your communication needs to come from a place of clear thinking and speaking to ensure there are no misunderstandings. If there are misunderstandings, show mercy knowing that at this time many people will be feeling the effects of Mercury and may be having trouble articulating what they are feeling.

Celebrate the small things and re-evaluate what you want based on what you have. It’s time to be aware and tune into your intuition and plan an exciting next step. During Mercury Retrograde it’s not about starting new things it’s about looking at what you have and planning what’s next.


 

New Moon: April 20 in Aries

The new moon this week is also a solar eclipse.  It will provide a space for you to plant the seeds of the exciting steps into the future but with the eclipse and the disappearance of the sun, it’s not a time to grow the seeds yet, just water the ideas. Mercury will help to keep an unrushed pace. Everything is a bit slow at this time, but this is great to really decide what you want.


Card of the week: Break The Cycle

April Energy Forecast
April Energy Forecast Week 3 Card:
You are being asked to step back and check your thoughts, behaviours, and communication in order to break any cycles of old behaviours such as needing to rush into things and be right.


April Energy Forecast Week 4: April 24 – April 30

A week of self-expression through creativity. Listen or play music to inspire positive mood changes and nurture your creative self. Creativity can step you out of any self-doubt and into a space of passion and to rebalance the mind to be able to provide ideas to unleash the wild side in you. This week you are being asked to do something fun and ridiculous to get you out of own mind. 

With Mercury in retrograde your relationships may feel a bit stuck and not on the same page but the reason this may come up is because there is an opportunity here for you to find connection again. All our emotions are necessary, even the ones that can be challenging but they are being brought up for you to evaluate the situation at hand. This is all to help you move forward and allow those seeds you planted through your decisions the week before to start growing and you may see some sprouts of growth this week. Growth comes from creativity!

Be like a child and believe in magic! Because when you do wonderful feelings of joy and wonder can be found.

Card of the week: Silver Lining

April Energy Forecast
April Energy Forecast Week 4 Card:
A new situation is forging out of the current experience and the silver lining will be found in the messages and understanding of what is influencing situations to arise this week.


Overall

April Energy Forecast is a time to reconnect and nurture yourself and your relationships. It’s time to take stock of your life both physically and emotionally. Inject passion and fun by slowing down and leaning into your feelings. Any resistance or separation is working itself out for you to feel more deeply connected to yourself and others around you giving you support, purpose and fulfilment.


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Trans Performer Judy O’Brien At NZ Rugby

If she wanted to, and she probably doesn’t, Trans performer Judy O’Brien could tell the story of her life through A-ha moments. It might start with the summer she was seven years old and buried her My Little Pony.

Judy, who was assigned male at birth, found a trowel, dug a hole and covered her beloved sparkly doll with dirt.

“Even at that age I was scared that people would see me with this girly doll so I hid her,” explains Judy, now 39 and the Culture, Diversity and Inclusion Manager at New Zealand Rugby.

“A boy at school played with Barbie dolls and I saw how he had been treated so I knew it wasn’t safe to be different.”



Tall, elegant and with a tousle of blond hair she constantly tucks behind her ears, Judy counts off another significant moment – when she was 14 and wearing pigtails and a purple blouse to a mufti day at Papakura’s Rosehill College, a get-up that attracted side-eyes and nasty slurs.

“It was the first time I was able to present a more realistic version of myself but I was made to feel that I was wrong. It showed me how narrow minded people can be when you don’t fit into their world view.”

Things got worse before they got better, exacerbated by puberty “which didn’t feel like a puberty my body should be going through”.         

There was a breakthrough of sorts in the goth scene, which allowed Judy to engage with others who also didn’t fit the norm. “If people were going to treat me like an outsider then I decided I would own that as my identity.” 

Home life brought its own challenges: Judy’s parents divorced when she was nine and she moved to Palmerston North to be closer to her mother’s whānau. A year later there was another move, back to Papakura to live with her grandparents.

“My grandmother was a Holocaust survivor from Vienna, an incredibly resilient woman who’d been through so much trauma in her life. She was one of my primary caregivers and taught me a lot about resilience.”

And confidence. By then in her last year of high school, and identifying as bisexual, Judy was ready to claim her “fabulous self”, experimenting with her look and staring down those who dared to toss the word ‘faggot’ her way. 

Despite bouts of depression, Judy did well academically and in 2002 enrolled in a psychology degree at Auckland University.

She found her tribe among the other psychology students in her halls of residence “(It seemed that we all had some kind of trauma in our backgrounds”). All was going well until one of those students hung herself. “We were going out for the night and she went back to her room and killed herself.”

The pain of that loss, 20+ years later, still resonates. At the time it nudged Judy towards the open arms of the trans community, drag queens and gender nonconforming people. 

She’d harboured a fascination with drag since tricking her father into taking her to see Priscilla Queen of the Desert when she was 11.

“I told Dad it was a road movie! But I’d never seen drag queens or trans people in mainstream media before so it blew my mind. I was like, how do I do that? How do I become like them? It was the first time I realised that people like me could take up space.”

She found a ‘Drag Mother’, well-known performer Michael Pattison, who taught her how to walk, dress, do her makeup and rock a wig. “I learned how to bring out my fabulousness, to put on a face that was more real than the face I was born with.”  

Telling her deeply religious family was another matter. 

“One day I was wearing full slap [makeup] and Dad came home. He said, you look gorgeous, will we be seeing you like this more often? It was a huge relief because I thought he would throw me out or disown me. Yet he changed his very Catholic view of the world for his child.”

Judy’s father even bankrolled her first pageant, Miss Drag Auckland 2004, which she won.

After graduating, Judy moved to Wellington to work for the Ministry of Justice on a sexual violence taskforce. Her boyfriend of the time, later her husband, moved with her.  But a year later he accepted a place in Toronto to do his PhD and so they moved to Canada’s east coast for six years. 

Unable to find a job Judy turned to drag performing and MCing events, her sharp wit and personality soon making her Toronto’s ‘IT’ trans girl. Some of the more notable inclusions on her CV include a feature film, a short film and playing the Virgin Mary in a video for US rockers Fall Out Boy. 

While Judy is at pains to say that not every trans woman wants or needs hormone therapy and surgery, she did. In 2011 she started on the former, followed 18 months later by a series of surgeries to medically transition. 

For Judy, the benchmark was being able to ‘pass’ as a woman. “My goal was to been seen as a woman based on the understanding of what a woman looks like.”


Trans performer Judy O’Brien
Trans performer Judy O’Brien


After her marriage broke up, Judy came back to Wellington, wielding her long blonde hair and beautifully made up face as a weapon. 

“It was my armour so that no-one would challenge me.” 

The planets eventually aligned with Judy’s dream job – project manager for Wellington’s Sexual Abuse Prevention Network (later rebranded as RespectEd Aoteroa) where she also lived on the front-line of diversity and inclusion mahi. That included working with parents of gay youth and supporting gay and trans youth.

But in 2021, while applying for another job, the Seek algorithm suggested Judy might be keen on the New Zealand Rugby role.  


Trans performer Judy O’Brien at her New Zealand rugby job

  


Turns out Trans performer Judy O’Brien was very keen. “I’d been writing a column for Express Magazine on trans issues and one of the topics I’d written about was trans women rugby players so I was interested in this area. Plus, I played one season of rugby as a kid!”

Two years down the track and Judy and her five staff spend their working hours trying to make rugby more inclusive to all New Zealanders, but particularly women, Māori, Pasifika and the rainbow community. 

“Our aim is for anyone of any ethnicity, gender or sexual orientation to see themselves represented in rugby.”

While Judy had scaled back her performance work while she bedded in the day job, she’s now got the head space to be able to dust off the sequins. 

That includes hosting Loud & Queer in Wellington on Saturday 20 May under her stage name, Judy Virago. The one-night comedy extravaganza is part of the NZ International Comedy Festival.

“I’ll be co-hosting with comedian Tom Sainsbury who I did a play with 20 years at Auckland University. We actually got married on stage in that play! I’m looking forward to working with Tom again on this production which will feature comedy, drag queens and a lot of fun.”

Judy is such good fun that we’ve overshot our interview time and she needs to get to a meeting. 

I ask her what the future holds and she mentions her partner, who she lives with in Wellington but doesn’t want to name, and the A-ha moments he’s provided.


Judy O’Brien presenting Rainbow Excellence Award
Rainbow Excellence Award


“When I married my ex husband in a platonic union, I think part of me never really believed I would ever find romantic love. It didn’t feel like an option for me as a trans woman and very rarely do we ever see positive representation of trans people in loving relationships. But since finding my partner, he’s  supported me to take on major challenges, just by being in my corner. There are hateful, harmful, voices out there trying to silence and eradicate women like me.

I’ve lost so many friends and sisters to premature deaths caused by transphobia, homophobia, murder and suicide. I’ve been verbally, physically, sexually, socially and psychologically assaulted throughout various points of my life, just for being different. But my partner showed me what it’s like to feel safe, secure and loved for everything I am and have been. And he provided space in my life for a journey of healing from all of that trauma.”


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Frances Valintine, Futurist, Educator and Author Of Future You

Image above sourced from Newsroom

CEO & Founder, academyEX (Formerly The Mind Lab, Tech Futures Lab).  Frances Valintine sits on the board of Watercare and is a selection adviser to EHF (Edmund Hillary Foundation), a judge on the Hi Tech Awards, and the National Expert for the global World Summit Awards. Frances is also a mentor to a number of global female technology leaders, and a Director to On Being Bold, an initiative to support and encourage emerging female leaders and female students to aim high and dream big.  Frances is also on the Board of Trustees for the University of Silicon Valley.

Her memoir, Future You, is a journey back to her roots sharing insights from her own extraordinary career and inspiring others to make bold self discoveries and to “step off the conveyor belt”. Growing up the daughter of two hardworking parents she feels she gained a lot of her entrepreneurial zeal from a dad who was ahead of his time experimenting with new technology to improve the family business.


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Future You by Frances Valintine
RRP $35


As a teenager she left her rural happy childhood behind, striking out against the usual trajectory of university education to forge her own path in life and seizing opportunity as it came her way. What started out by the author as a line of self enquiry during the pandemic has resulted in a book which investigates risk and choice against a background story of a young kiwi girl who buys a one way ticket to London and ends up CEO Founder and Chair of The Mind Lab and Tech Futures Lab.

For a book that concerns itself with the education of tech the story is blessedly jargon free. It deals with the real conflict and pain when the demands of parenting conflict with career obligations and running a successful business that depends on growth and commitment. Her business has seen around 8000 people graduate with skills in technology and has provided scholarships for those over 60 to upskill in a world that is moving faster than it takes to speed dial your gran. 

Not surprising then that this mover and shaker was awarded a CNZM for her role in education in the tech sector. She sits on the boards of Callaghan Innovation, talentnomics based in Washington DC and the Artificial Intelligence Forum New Zealand. Her refreshing and hopeful belief in regrowth and change makes this an inspiring read for both those setting out and for those for whom the road has far receded in the rear view mirror.

We chatted to her about her life and her new book, Future You.



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All In This Together: 4 Instagram Accounts To Help Navigate Parenthood

Forget pristine and curated Instagram feeds full of perfect lunch boxes, matching outfits and strict sleep routines, we are talking honest convos about parenthood. We think Instagram might be the perfect place to find people who will make you feel like you’re not alone!  


Rebecca Keil

Rebecca makes it clear to her followers that no topic is off limits and she will not say sorry for swearing in front of her kids. Rebecca shares her experiences of parenting, pregnancy and surrogacy whilst being outrageously funny. She has an authentic personality that kiwi mums across the country would love and have been loving.


Mimi Gilmour Buckley 

They say you can’t do it all, but Mimi is. ​​Mimi is a mother to Olympia (pictured above) and Octavia, wife to Stephen and CEO of Mates Agency, Co founder of Lammi  AND Burger Burger.  When her first born Olympia suffered a severe brain injury, Mimi’s life turned upside down, but nothing has stopped her from creating the best life for her family.  


Mark and Christian

Mark and Christian are Dads raising beautiful children Lulu & Frankie. Each instagram post is a note to a child, documenting their life. Mark & Christian have been up against Surrogacy and Adoption laws for the last 5 years. Going as far as  challenging Jacinda Ardern to make it easier for families like them to grow. They faced counselling, police checks, home inspections, Ethics approval, IVF and finally, court approval to adopt a biological child!!


Jordyn Gregory AKA Kiwi Birth Tales

A collection of Kiwi Mums & Dads sharing their Pregnancy and Birth tales, giving a snapshot of birthing experiences in New Zealand. You will learn, laugh, cry and find comfort in these stories as they are the good, the bad and the beautifully ugly. Jordyn uses her platform to show that you are not alone on your journey whether this is trying to conceive, pregnant, postpartum or have an expecting friend or family member.


Valerie Adams

An iconic mum and athlete for New Zealand. Valerie Adams advocates on her social media that it is important for parents to lift each other up and to be open about their experiences. Valerie’s youngest son Tava was diagnosed with Type 1 Diabetes at birth – her platform shares her families story and educates many on Type 1 diabetes and the challenges that come with it. You only have to read her photo comments to see how many families are going through the same struggle.


And All Because Two People Fell In Love… The Tuinman Wedding

These days weddings are however and wherever you want to make it happen. Nothing needs to match, flowers can be wild, your best man can be your dog but you do need a plan. A wedding is most likely to be the most anticipated, feared and treasured day in the whole course of your relationship. For better or worse, in sickness and in health, here’s to the happy couple.


What was your favourite moment of the wedding day?


We were both really nervous, my whole car ride to the chapel was a blur of nerves and anticipation, and I know Floyd felt the same standing at the alter waiting for me to be fashionably late! We had written our vows to surprise each other with, after we had read them (they were perfect) and our celebrant had said “you may pash the bride!” I buried my head in his chest and just cried tears of pure joy, the relief and happiness just overwhelmed me and I felt like it was just us. We stood like that just holding each other for ages… then I looked up and of course all 70 of our guests were still standing there staring at us! But it felt like such a special moment, like the world stopped and it was just us.


black and white photo of wedding
bridge and groom on wedding day


Who was your photographer, florist, videographer, wedding planner?


Our photographer was the incredible Bek Smith, she has a real knack for capturing those genuine moments of intimacy so well, and she was such a pleasure to have with us on the day, like an old friend. Everything else was me! I planned everything myself, and did all the florals, my bridesmaid and I went to the Penrose flower markets to buy everything we needed then spent the day styling it all, I was a little apprehensive that we could pull it off but it actually was very fun and I’m so happy with how they looked. 


Wedding party in front of church


If you could change one thing about the wedding day, what would it be?


I was so busy milling around excitedly hugging all our guests that I didn’t get to eat a single piece of the beautiful food that we had so carefully hand selected! If I could do it over I stop and take time to eat something haha


Black and white wedding photo in church
bride and groom on wedding day


Where was your wedding dress from and why did you choose it?


My dress was by Eva Lendel from the amazing Natalie Rose Bridal. She provides such an immersive and personal bridal experience, you feel so special when you visit her “Pink Palace”. I initially had another dress from somewhere else at the top of my list, but my mind kept returning to the incredible sparkle, fit and luxury of this one – I felt like a beautiful modern version of Elsa from Frozen, Jessica Rabbit and a mermaid all rolled into one, it was dreamy.

Did anything not go to plan and how did you handle that? 


I managed to do the classic “kick the corner of the bed” trick the day before the wedding and broke my little toe which put paid to any ideas I had of wearing the beautiful Loeffler Randall organza heels I was supposed to wear!  I nipped out and bought some white Converse sneakers and tried to hide them under my gown at first, but honestly I think they were far more “me”, our whole plan for the wedding was to make it really “us”, and serendipitously I’m actually really happy it all turned out the way it did.


bride and groom on wedding day
bride and groom on wedding day
bride and groom on wedding day


Vendors


Dress: Natalie Rose Bridal 
Suits: Politix 
Location: The Hotel Britomart 
Makeup: Amber Carroll 
Photography | Videography: Bek Smith, Luke Harvey and Michael Moore 
Hair: Robyn Munro Hair 
Dress alterations: Fritz and Sarah
Extras: The Whole Bride (Orange biodegradable confetti) Fazeek Home (Champagne glasses)


Want to share your special day? Get in touch at [email protected]

Related article: New Zealand’s Top Wedding Photographers

Law firm Buddle Findlay kicks The Motherhood Penalty

Law firm Buddle Findlay kicks the motherhood Penalty and offers support packages for staff with new ‘bundles’ of joy.

Above image source : Raconteur

Supporting their people to thrive is a key priority at Buddle Findlay as it launches its market leading package for parental leave and whānau support, helping kick the Motherhood Penalty.  The new approach seeks to create gender equity, supports families before, during and after going on parental leave, and provides coaching to both leaders and employees with families.  

Recently the Buddle Findlay partners confirmed a set of commitments and a progressive package that supports parents and their whānau.  The commitments include ensuring people at Buddle Findlay can thrive at work, and to support them in their career aspirations; the focus is on removing (and not creating) barriers to their growth. 

Buddle Findlay has dug deep to understand the motherhood penalty and recognised there are four key ingredients required to support its parents and whānau.  They are financial, a focus on gender equity, independent coaching to support transitions and decision making, and supportive and empowering leadership.   

Image of Charlotte von Dadelszen at Buddle Findlay
Charlotte von Dadelszen


The resulting new market-leading package is bedded in research, consultation and collaboration.  Charlotte von Dadelszen, Buddle Findlay board member and chair of the firm’s diversity and inclusion committee, says “We know how hard it can be to be a parent and maintain your career, and the research tells us this is more challenging for women. 

We’ve developed a more equitable parental leave policy, allowing for both parents to take time away from work and play an active and primary role in the care of their child.  We worked hard to listen to our people and respond to what they were telling us.  The partners are really proud of the new package and entitlements, and genuinely believe it reflects the importance Buddle Findlay places on supporting our people and their whānau.”  

What’s in the package to help the Motherhood Penalty?

The package is underpinned by clear leadership expectations, return to work planning and budget relief.  It includes 26 weeks of paid leave for parents while they undertake the primary care of the child and can be taken within the first 24 months of the child being born.  Buddle Findlay will also provide four weeks paid partner’s leave, and again, this can be taken within the first 24 months of the child being born.  The hope is that this will result in the responsibility for childcare being shared more equitably between the parents.  

Buddle Findlay is also ensuring that when its parents take parental leave, KiwiSaver contributions continue, and holiday pay is at full value on return from leave.  In addition, Buddle Findlay will be offering one-on-one coaching and a suite of online resources for both parents and leaders through an external provider. 

The coaching is available prior, during and on return from parental leave, and supports the transition in and out of parental leave as well as navigating some of the complexities that come about later in parenting.  Resources are available for parents, caregivers and the firm’s leaders and provide information on a wide range of topics including flexible work practices, self-care and resilience, career growth, elder care and parenting skills. 

Buddle Findlay manager, people and culture, Margot Elworthy, was one of the first to benefit from the new policy.  “The package has allowed us to focus on what’s important and put everything in to giving Bowie the best start,” says Margot.  “It means we can enjoy the special moments and time as a whānau with less pressure while away from work.  I am grateful to Buddle Findlay for giving us this opportunity, and all the people at Buddle Findlay who shared their experiences during the process.  I am looking forward to returning to a workplace that wants the best for their people.”  

Mark Mulholland, senior associate, has benefited from the increased focus on gender equity, and commented “It has given me the opportunity to spend much more quality time with my daughter while also enabling my wife to continue developing her career.  The paid parental leave policy has been really positive for our family.”

The new policy came into effect on 1 January 2023. 

Related article: The Mothers Load In The Work Place.

Our 10 BEST things to do this Easter weekend

There is lots to do this Easter Weekend! Spend the weekend hunting for easter eggs, dining across the motu, high teas and of course attending the annual Easter Shows around the country. We’ve also created the must-try list of hot cross bun spots throughout New Zealand but if we’ve forgotten yours please let us know so we can try it!

Easter Egg Hunt at Kaipara Coast Sculpture Gardens
17th April, 1481 Kaipara Coast Highway, Kaukapakapa 9:00am – 2:00pm
In addition to the designated play areas for children, spots for picnics, and areas for playing the of petanque, visitors will have the opportunity to take a leisurely walk along the stunning 1km sculpture trail. This has impressive sculptures from both local and international artists. 
Tickets.


Easter Egg Hunt at Kaipara Coast Sculpture Gardens


Easter High Tea 
7 April – 10 April, 2023, Cordis Hotel, Auckland
Unwind and savor the exquisite assortment of tea time delicacies from Cordis’ High Tea menu. You will be served a stunning three-level stand of TWG crockery that elegantly presents our carefully crafted sweets, savories, and freshly made scones that are bound to please your taste buds.

Easter Extravaganza at Howick Historical Village
April 17th, Howick Historical Village, Auckland
Take the kids to have a  photo with the Easter Bunny and explore the site with an Easter Trail to receive an exciting chocolate prize. Howick Village will have craft activities, egg hunts, face-painting and outdoor games, there will be something new around every corner.
Tickets

The Easter Show
April 7th- 10th, Auckland Showgrounds, Auckland
At the Easter Show, you can expect a range of attractions such as carnival rides, markets, a petting zoo, medieval combat, a BMX demonstration, and not to forget, an Easter egg hunt.
Tickets

Easter Night Market
April 6th 5:00pm, Victoria Market, Auckland
Indulge in a variety of delectable food options from your preferred food trucks, which include Mexican cuisine, gluten-free loaded fritters, seafood, gourmet donuts, fruit smoothies, dumplings, and much more. Explore a charming collection of market stalls that provide distinctive and high-quality gifts, handmade goods, such as beauty products, wellness jewellery, eco-friendly items, arts and crafts, homeware, and many other unique products.

Highlight: Carnival of Lights


Highlight: Carnival of Lights
April 6th-9th, Brewtown, Maidstone
Brewtown in Upper Hutt undergoes a stunning metamorphosis with the arrival of HighLight, which turns it into a dazzling carnival of lights that caters to all ages. Visitors can lose themselves in an array of vibrant and luminous installations, watch live performances, witness a fire and light spectacle, participate in interactive activities, and experience many other delightful attractions.
Tickets.

Easter High Tea at the Intercontinental 
7th – 10th April, Intercontinental, Wellington. 
Satisfy your taste buds with an exquisite range of hand-crafted sweet and savory delicacies that come with a charming Easter touch.
Book here.


I Spy @ Toitū The Great Easter Egg Hunt

I Spy @ Toitū The Great Easter Egg Hunt
Saturday 1 – Thursday 13 April, Toitū – Otago Museum. 
Toitū Museum is organising a grand Easter egg hunt, where you can explore the galleries to find hidden treasures, mark them off your list, and finally return to the reception to collect your reward.

Grab you and your family a hot cross bun
Have you noticed these have already been in supermarkets since February…? Read WOMAN+’s guide to hot cross buns here


Spiced Hot Cross Bun Donuts From Doe Donuts Auckland


Plan a long weekend away
The weather seems to be in our favour at the moment. There’s an endless supply of spots across the country to head away to during the Easter break. Read our WOMAN+ recommended batches, nooks, tiny homes and apartments just ready for you to explore. 
Full list here.


Hot Cross Bun Season Is Back

Image above: Volare Bread.

Personally, I’m just glad we’ve passed the lockdowns of the past few Easters and I’m not having to attempt to make my own hot cross buns ever again! 

Here is our carefully curated guide on where to get the best hot cross buns this year. And we’re not talking about just your standard run of the mill buns too, we’ve got hot cross cinnamon scrolls, spiced fruit donuts and our personal favourite, chocolate chip hot cross buns. Controversial…I did include Bakers Delight but for $12 for 6 you really can’t go wrong.


Just Jess Boujee Bakery

Where: 16 Matua Road, Huapai, Auckland


Doe Donuts

Where: 16 Matua Road, Huapai, Auckland


Butter baby

Where: Butterbaby.co.nz or Britomart Market – Sat 25 March


Ima Cuisine

Where: 53 Fort Street, Downtown, Auckland


Daily Bread

Where: Pt Chev, Ponsonby, Belmont, Britomart, Newmarket & Federal Street – Auckland


Brick Artisan Bread Company

Where: 3B/95 Albert Street, Terrace End, Palmerston North


August Eatery

Where: 75 Taranaki Street, Te Aro, Wellington



Kidds Cakes & Bakery

Where: 254 Cranford Street, St Albans, Christchurch


Grizzly Baked Goods

Delivery: 33 Buchan Street, Sydenham, Christchurch


Bakers Delight

Where: 20 stores across Auckland


After 3 Virtual Years, Dunedin Runway Is Ready For Fashion Week

Though the world of fashion has shifted its stance to being less trend driven and more circular it still needs the framework of launches and a runway to strut its stuff and this month the much anticipated fashion week of 2023 returns to Dunedin with bags of style.

I’ve always loved fashion quotes that attach life lessons to the wearing of cool and stylish clothes.

“One is never over-dressed or under-dressed with a Little Black Dress.” —Karl Lagerfeld

“What you wear is how you present yourself to the world, especially today, when human contacts are so quick. Fashion is instant language.” —Miuccia Prada

And my personal favourite – “I firmly believe that with the right footwear one can rule the world.” —Bette Midler

We love dressing up and we miss it when we don’t. During the pandemic we lived through the age of the stretch pant, ‘top dressing’ only for zooms and chilling out in what was termed “zookeeper clothes”. Now that the Fashion Week is back in the calendar it’s thrilling to be able to see clothes modelled and the designers dreams realised on the runway.

The iD Dunedin Fashion Show is set to return to the iconic Dunedin Railway Station on Friday 31 March and Saturday 1 April  2023. With prominent figures from the New Zealand fashion industry coming together to showcase their talent its no wonder the show has sold out.The renowned Auckland-based label, Zambesi, will be making a comeback on the runway, presenting a new collection of exceptional pieces for both men and women. Designer Elisabeth Findlay’s signature style is known for creating clothing that is for both genders practical and imaginative, and she is thrilled to be part of the judging panel for the Emerging Designers award.



The Emerging Designers judging day, which is scheduled for Thursday, March 30, is one of the most anticipated events leading up to the show. A panel of seven jurors will evaluate the collections of the 29 finalists and after 3 years of virtual judging it’s going to be good to finally be there in person.

The iD Dunedin Fashion Week has also announced that Laura McGoldrick and Callum Proctor (The HITS) will be the MCs for the show, adding their unique fashion insights and banter to the event

Dunedin Fashion Week has been running for over a decade, and has gained a reputation for promoting emerging designers and supporting the local fashion industry. It attracts a diverse audience from across New Zealand and around the world. Fashionista’s will be looking to what’s revealed in Dunedin over the coming weeks to get a heads up on what’s going to be on the racks in stores and worn on the streets.


A Fat Girl’s Cry

A brilliant funny new play A Fat Girl’s Cry, talks about lived experience with fat and society’s obsession with a lack of it.

In a small outhouse in suburban Wellington, 23-year-old musical theatre graduate Celia Macdonald has been ticking away writing, directing, sewing, and rehearsing on a project that’s been three years in the making. Tipping her hat at some of Broadway’s greatest hits and with representation at its core, A Fat Girl’s Cry is poised to challenge audiences’ ideas around traditional stereotypes of what defines a ‘leading lady’. 

“The play was originally going to be called Girls Cry, as I want to be considered a talented actress, not defined as a talented fat actress. But it’s also about crying out for help and to be taken seriously. We cry too, we feel emotions. It’s about taking ownership of the word fat, it’s not an insult, it’s a fact.”

On top of jazz and tap, the Wellingtonian started ballet lessons when she was three but stopped at 13 because she started to become body conscious. Ballet’s hard, she says, where you’re looking in mirrors wearing leotards and you’re taught to scrutinise your body and the lines it makes. 

“Especially going through puberty, you start to notice the difference between you and the others in class. I’ve always been bigger and taller than everyone and it started to really influence me. 

“When you see your skinny friend go, ‘Oh God I look so bloated, I’m so fat’, I thought, what the hell am I, then? If you think you’re overweight, what the hell do you think of me?

Dancing can be polarising for people as there’s a default position that bigger bodies can’t dance, but that’s not the case, she says. 

“Tap’s amazing. It’s about rhythm, strength, and sound. You get to make noise and do cool tricks and it’s not necessarily about the look of your actual body. It feels more freeing and it’s more grounded as an artform.

“I’m naturally quite flexible, which I’ve been told is surprising ‘for someone like me’. I can do the splits on my left side, and people will try for years to do the splits and never get there due to genetics.”

Fat phobia is pervasive, she says. “You see it in media and popular culture – the side-kick, villains, or ‘less desirable’ characters will be chubby, less intelligent or used as comic relief. This then translates into society and we’re considered ‘less normal’. The thing is, size is just a factor, it doesn’t define a person, their personality or their worth in any way.”

At 15, Macdonald was diagnosed with an eating disorder “not otherwise specified” due to her size, for example. 


Celia Macdonald practicing for upcoming shows.


Having lost 10 kgs within a month, her doctor couldn’t understand that she would qualify for restrictive disorder or anorexia because she was considered overweight according to her BMI. It meant she continued disordered eating and is only now dealing with it thanks to the help of a psychologist. 

“It’s so hard. Even with this play I had to fight the urge to think I’d look better if I tried to lose some weight but I’ve had to actively say ‘no, I’m doing this as I am’. People don’t realise that when you police your food it’s what leads to trouble. Now I find if I don’t treat food as good or bad, it’s less all-consuming.”

Macdonald was lucky to know from an early age that performing was what she wanted to do. And she found criticisms – ‘No one wants a fat actress’ from a friend, even – to give her the drive to secure a place at Musical Theatre (NASDA) in Christchurch in 2018.

Drama school was an incredible way for Macdonald to perfect her craft and make wonderful friends but it was also when she first realised stereotypical type-casting was a real problem in the industry, for her and others in her class. 

“It felt so black and white and I felt like I had to really prove myself to be seen and feel like I was worthy to be there.”

Thinking the limitations were specific to drama school, Macdonald was particularly upset after rehearsing for weeks for a female lead role in a musical once she moved back to Wellington in 2020.


Celia Macdonald dancing

Contrary to popular belief there are rarely physical descriptions of characters in most plots so Macdonald thought, “why can’t she be played by someone who’s plus-sized? We feel those exact same emotions. And it was in Wellington, which is so diverse in its people and outlook”. 

Instead, she was met with surprise at her choice of character to audition for, which was rude, small-minded, and a missed opportunity, she says. 

“It was upsetting because I had worked incredibly hard but it prompted me to kick into full gear with writing and directing my own show. It was a major catalyst.”  

Whether it’s the script-writers, directors, producers or casting crew, Macdonald thinks universally there’s an unnecessarily cautious approach to diversity, where people are frightened to stray away from traditional views in favour of clear paths of success and ticket sales. 

On top of celebrating diversity, A Fat Girl’s Cry talks about her experiences in the industry, what needs to change, and how to do it. It will also be the first time her mother has seen it. 

“My mum was apprehensive and worried about the show. As much as parents want to protect their children you can’t protect them from everything. She said it was upsetting – not for the idea itself – that people made me feel in such a way that I needed to do this show. But it’s more than about me now. Things have to change. 

“It’s a lot, but I’m hoping it will be quite cathartic for me.”

Written, directed, and performed by Celia Macdonald, A Fat Girl’s Cry is showing at Bats Theatre 22-25 March. For more information see here.



Related article: An Ode to my fat self.

Go As A River Book Review

Heart wrenching and beautifully written, Go As A River is a poignant debut story about love sacrifice and having a deep well of resilience.

Go As A River contains all the elements of a thrilling Western – the frontier, the wild west, love, violence, and adventure- but at its heart it is an engrossing love story and as female centric as John Wayne is male. In her elegant first novel author Shelley Read sets the story in 1948 in a small community of Iola in the state of Colorado. Seventeen year old Victoria Nash lives on a peach orchard with her father, an embittered war veteran uncle and her deeply vengeful brother.

When Victoria was 12 she lost the only women in her life – her mother and aunt, and a beloved cousin in a car accident. Burying her grief in the manner of the repressed men around her, she comes of age in a male dominated household accepting her role as the replacement housekeeper – cooking the meals, cleaning and washing the clothes as well as doing her work in the orchard but only two pages into this novel her whole world changes when by chance she encounters a young man passing through town with a dazzling smile, straight black hair, gentle eyes and tan skin. Sadly the same set of anatomical characteristics make the toxic townsfolk spit the word “injun’ and kick him from their midst.


Against a backdrop of prejudice and intolerance and small minded ‘frontier’ mentality a love story blooms of the most heart pressing kind. It is the catalyst for change in a life that seemed unalterable.


With astonishing precision Read narrates the agony and the resolve of one woman’s plight in the wilderness and landscape of her homeland. Her eye for descriptions of the dazzling assortment of ecosystems is gorgeous- Bald Eagles, American Dippers flit through the pages as the reader is taken deep into the river beds and into the alpine forests of a country she knows so well.

Butterflies, guinea hens, dogs and horses are a necessary counterpart to the harsh and hateful ways of some of the worst of humankind and Read’s natural affinity with nature is beautifully illustrated. Though we long for retribution or revenge for a scene in the novel so shocking that we turn the pages compulsively we find in the ending a satisfying showdown that tells you love is the ultimate redeemer and healer. 

Read this for pure escapism of the truly romantic kind, for the notion that there is personal justice outside the courts, and for the idea that you are bound to no one other than the ones who truly love you.



Related article: New Zealand Author Joanne Drayton’s Memoir: The Queens Wife

Why are we so bad at under paying teachers so well?

From an early age I knew that teaching was an exhausting job and that it would take whatever you were prepared to throw at it and then some. So why is the New Zealand government under paying teachers what they are worth?

Image above sourced from RNZ / Nick Monro.

My mother started teaching on the first day her last child (me) started school. Together we’d leave the house in the morning racing along the footpath with our bags clanging at our sides. Hers was a giant string bag she’d knitted, mine was a tiny suitcase with a butt hinge metal closure. Her school, the local state one, mine the Catholic one further along the road. We left the house early in the morning but very rarely went home together.

Some days I would wait for her in her classroom reading in the ‘reading corner’ while she put everything back in order. If there were staff meetings I wouldn’t wait around. When she finally did get home she often needed a sleep before making dinner. Sometimes another sleep after dinner.

My father too was a teacher and he supplemented the poor pay with part time work. Like many others, my parents worked long hours outside of their normal workday, including weekends and evenings, to write reports, and prepare lessons. I have memories of waking up in the middle of the night and finding my mother kneeling on the living room floor surrounded by teaching plans. When the school holidays arrived I watched my parents recuperate as though they had been ill. 

But If it was hard work then it has clearly got so much worse since. Five years ago at the age of fifty and after a career doing other things, I decided to become a teacher. Inspired by the idea that I could work outside of the commercial world, for the public good. Yay, noble me!

When I told a friend that I was going to train as a teacher he was impressed. Being a criminal lawyer he knew that intervention at an early age is crucial and who else but teachers have that access?. As the New Zealand educational pioneer Sylvia Asthon Warner once said “in a classroom it is possible to meet an unpatterned person” to change the course of someone’s life before ‘life’ intervened.

I had spent years working in other jobs and I’d like to think I was no slouch when it came to stamina but I found teaching intense, exhausting and astonishingly underpaid. I was not prepared for the reality of overcrowded classrooms, lack of resources and worse-  the professional loneliness. I was never going to be able to hack the hours and the stress.

I finished my training disappointed that I didn’t have what it took and more annoyed that what it took was not necessarily what a good educator needed to excel at. If it was hard work back in my parents day, clearly it has only got worse since.

Yesterday tens of thousands of teachers and school support staff in primary, intermediate and secondary schools went on strike.  Growing class sizes, dealing with students’ mental health problems and exhaustion are just some of the reasons along with demands for better pay.

I saw first hand the hours teachers worked. If you didn’t start by 7am it meant you were struggling to be on top of the day. It was impossible to do the job well and not work weekends and in the evenings. If I woke in the middle of the night it was to worry about a work plan. A lot of people I know employed in the commercial sector have these kinds of work related demands placed on them. It’s not unusual and it goes with a salary package, maybe a phone, possibly a car.

The starting salary for a teacher is less than $50,000, the top of the scale is $86,380. To give some context around this, in Germany a starting salary of teaching is NZD $84,000 and the top of the scale is NZD $120,000 and since we’re looking, the highest paid teachers in the world are in Luxembourg, where the average annual salary for a full-time teacher in primary education is approximately NZD 144,000.

According to the Ministry of Education, more than 80% of employed teachers are women. And yes there are studies suggesting this is a contributing factor to the low pay scale in New Zealand.  As a job that could potentially change so much about the way we live, why do we  not see it as the most important cog in society’s wheel and pay accordingly? Why are we under paying teachers so much?

The first Teachers Strike in Aotearoa was in August 1994 for reasons of poor pay and because the government was undervaluing and under appreciating and under paying teachers.

Neither of my parents marched. My father had suffered burn out before he met retirement.

It remains to be seen whether the government’s response to this week’s strike will be enough to address the issues raised and make a genuine difference but it has certainly started an important conversation about the value of teachers in Aotearoa and figuring out how to stop under paying teachers.


Related article: Cool for school: How to prepare your kids for their first day

Our First Novel: Māori Wāhine Novelist Talks About Where It All Started

From Patricia Grace to Keri Hulme, Māori wāhine novelists have always made their mark in the literary landscape in Aotearoa – and that tradition continues. 

We meet four Māori wāhine novelists who are carrying the torch and making a splash in the local literary world. They talk about writing their first novel and words of wisdom for aspiring wāhine novelists.


Shilo Kino

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Age: 33

Iwi: Ngāti Maniapoto, Ngāpuhi 

Novel:  The Pōrangi Boy  

I grew up in Waipu, a  small town in Northland that is deeply rooted in Scottish heritage and history. This meant I spent my childhood celebrating Scottish culture and learning about the history of Scottish pioneers arriving in Waipu before I learnt  about the history of my own iwi.  There weren’t many Māori in Waipu and I lived away from my marae so I never felt like I belonged. I read books and wrote to feel a part of something. Many of the books and media I read and consumed were Pākehā but when I stumbled across stories from the likes of Maya Angelou, Toni Morrison, Patricia Grace, it was for the first time I really felt seen.

At university I was heavily influenced by the writings of scholars such as Dr Leonie Pihama and Dr Rose Pere.  I was studying journalism and I was also one of the only Māori students in my class. I remember reading an article by Dr Pihama about racism and the media.  Her critical thinking changed the course of my career and ultimately my life.  She validated my childhood experience and made me feel like I wasn’t alone, that I can reclaim some of the power back that I felt like I had lost.  This is the power of Māori writers, the way our words can heal each other.  Because words and stories have harmed Māori for far too long. 

I always knew I was going to be a writer! I used to sit at home and write stories and magazines while my friends played outside, it’s just something I have loved since I can remember.

 My first novel was a young adult fiction book called The Pōrangi boy, released in November 2020 published by Huia Publishers. It is about a young boy called Niko who is bullied and called ‘pōrangi’ or crazy  for fighting to stop a prison from being built on sacred land, inspired by the protest at Ngāwha. Our history is shaped by injustice and the fight for our whenua and I wanted to write a story from a young person’s perspective. 

I had never written a novel before. I wrote 50,000 words, sent it to Huia publishers and they recommended I apply for Te Papa Tupu, a  six-month writing programme designed to develop Māori writers. I was accepted and mentored by the amazing Jacquie McRae. I worked with her for a year on refining the manuscript. I wouldn’t have been able to finish The Pōrangi boy without Jacquie and Te  Papa Tupu. It taught me invaluable writing habits and also offered me a community of other Māori writers. 

The greatest challenge was trying to write and work full time. Both jobs (journalism and writing) require mass amounts of energy and I was at full capacity. I was living in Tauranga at the time and I really didn’t have any other life. I would wake up, jump in the ocean, write, go to work, come home, write, sleep. Repeat. 

The reaction for The Pōrangi Boy is more than what I could have hoped for. It won the Young Adult book of the year at the NZ Children book awards and sold thousands of copies. It’s also used in many schools’ curriculum across the country  and I’ve had many opportunities to visit  many tamariki over the last two years. A highlight for me  was going back to my old English teacher Mrs Northey and speaking to her students. Mrs Northey had a big influence on me growing up and always encouraged my writing. It was one of those full circle moments and also my last school visit for a while as I move into adult literature. 

The challenge of being a wahine Maori writer is that often the work we do is heavy. We have a lot of pain that comes from colonization.  I love the words of Whaea Toni Morrison who says, ‘there are certain kinds of trauma that are so deep, so cruel but unlike money, unlike vengeance even unlike justice… only writers can translate such trauma and turn sorrow into meaning.’ And that’s the power of Māori wahine writers.

Me maumahara koe, he kākano koe i ruia mai i Rangiātea. You are a seed sown in the heavens and born of greatness.  Our stories are unique and have the power to heal the world. We are the vessel and instrument for many untold stories. I draw strength from my tīpuna who were the greatest storytellers. 

Another challenge is being careful not to perpetuate stereotypes. Unfortunately, there are still people in the world who think one Māori story reflects the culture as a whole. As Nadine Anne Hura said, ‘Alan Duff wrote his story, but someone else’s machinery propelled it into the world as gospel.’

I always try to ask myself; how do I tell my truth without contributing to an old, tired narrative? Is the story I’m telling trauma informed or trauma led? There’s nothing worse than making trauma porn for the appetite of certain audiences. 

I have worked as a journalist for the last seven years and I’ve recently moved into communications to help support my writing. I’ve just finished writing my manuscript, an adult fiction book titled ‘All That We Know.’ The spiritual wound left from the loss of land impacts whānau for generations and I wanted to show what it’s like for a young wāhine navigating life, relationships, identity and whānau here in Tāmaki Makaurau. That’s all I can really say right now! The Pōrangi Boy is a book I wished was around when I was a child.  ‘All That We Own Know’ is a book I want to read now as an adult. I couldn’t find it so I wrote it.

My advice to other writers is that there’s no right or wrong way to write. When I was trying to finish my second book,  I promised myself I would write at least an hour a day. Sometimes that hour would turn into five, or it would just be an hour but after a month, two months, you’ve written thousands of words.  I write best during Whiro phase of the maramataka so knowing yourself, how connected you feel helps with writing.

Writing is often about observing. My notes app is ridiculous,  it’s filled with random words and ideas. A thought will come into my mind or something will spark a thought and I’ll write it down straight away. Find what works best for you! Also apply for Te Papa Tupu. Find other Māori or indigenous writers. We thrive best in community and writing is one of the loneliest mahi that you can do.



Whiti Hereaka 

IMAGE OF Whiti Hereaka


Age:  45

Iwi: Ngāti Tūwharetoa, Te Arawa, Tūhourangi, Ngāti Whakaue, Ngāti Tumatawera, Tainui and Pākēha.

Novels: The Graphologist’s Apprentice, Bugs, Legacy, Kurangaituku

In 2022, Whiti won the Jann Medlicott Acorn Prize for Fiction at the prestigious Ockham New Zealand Book Awards

I grew up in Taupō and my family encouraged my writing and storytelling. There were always books in the house and my father tells a good yarn — so I grew up with the idea that being able to tell a good story and keep an audience enthralled was a prized skill.

I read a lot and widely and my interest flits from subject to subject. When I was in school, I was familiar with Whale Rider and Pounamu Pounamu, and I chose The Matriarch as a book for my senior prizegiving prize in English. All these novels were written by Witi Ihimaera. 

I didn’t want to be a writer, that wasn’t really something I thought of. I wanted to be a vet, an actor, create muppets. Writing was an outlet, a way to make sense of the world for me. The first story that was published in the local paper was called A Story of Great Importance (got to love the confidence of an eleven-year-old!) 

My writing is a response to the world. Usually, I’m trying to figure out a problem or behaviour that I find baffling through writing. That makes it difficult to categorize what might inspire me to write — anything and everything is a source of inspiration.

It is easier for me to think about the ideas that turn into projects rather than just a fixation for a week or two. Ideas that keep reoccurring, or that connect with other ideas to create a net for my attention. those are the ideas that have legs, and I will write, because by then I have no other option but to write it. It is an all-consuming idea that must be let like blood from my body so that I can have peace.

The most moving and humbling thing that has happened to me as a writer is when young wāhine have thanked me for writing Bugs because they finally saw themselves in a book. I think it is empowering to see someone who is like you in a work of fiction, on the stage or on the screen — sometimes it helps to validate your experience of the world. And I think the world is richer in having many voices tell stories — it reminds us of how each of us is unique but also how many of our experiences are universal.

My first novel was called The Graphologist’s Apprentice and it was published in 2010 by Huia Publishers and took me four years to write. Plotwise it’s about a young woman, January, who finds her vocation when she answers a random card she finds in the supermarket. Graphology is the study of personality through handwriting, and the graphologist in the novel, May, is watching as her profession and art slowly dies out. The two form a friendship that they both desperately need but are both too stubborn to admit.

What inspired the novel was my interest in fonts and how the design of letters communicates. Very early on I thought perhaps it would be a story about a woman that falls in love (literally) with letters. I think that’s how I stumbled across graphology and because graphology relies on handwriting, I wondered about how a graphologist feels about a world that primarily uses digital communication.

I was working in the Stationery Department of Kirkcaldie and Stains at the time and we had a regular customer who would call us to place orders. She was an elderly woman who was housebound. Sometimes I thought that she called us just to have a bit of a chat, to have human contact so I thought about loneliness and graphology: studying human behaviour when you are isolated from a community.

I rearranged my life to make time towards writing my first novel.  I looked for a job in administration so I could work fewer hours but still had a comparable income to working full-time in retail. I got up early to work on the novel before I went to work.

It was more of a slow burn than I had experienced with theatre, where audience reactions are immediate, and reviews come in the next day. But when they did come in, they were good. It was short listed for the First Book, Commonwealth Writers Prize (Asia/Pacific) in 2011.

I’ve published three more novels since; Bugs, Legacy and Kurangaituku. 

I don’t think I can divorce the challenges of being a novelist from the challenges of being a Wahine Māori novelist because I don’t know a reality outside of being a Wahine Māori novelist!

Probably the biggest challenge is having the time and space to write. It takes me a while to write a novel, mainly because I try to reinvent my process and try to push my understanding of the form with each new project.

There are external challenges of people perhaps thinking that I ought to write about certain things or the perception that people outside of Te Ao Māori might not understand my work but I’ve never really been worried about that! I know not everyone will embrace my mahi and that’s OK.

It would be nice if being a novelist paid the bills, but outside of occasional grants and prizes it really doesn’t. I’ve worked in retail, office administration, free-lance contract writing, script writing for TV, teaching, mentoring, manuscript and thesis assessor. My job now is Lecturer of Creative Writing at Massey University.

I’m in the research phase of a new novel that is a haunting/possession story, tentatively called Ariā. It follows the life of Ariā from a child to a young woman and the presence of an entity in her life that influences her. At the moment, my reading list is heavy with horror. I’m also interested in page design and how that can help to support the story that’s being told, so I’m reading works that play with form. 

I’d like to push myself and my work into new and strange directions. At the moment I’m interested in how I can use a Western form of storytelling and subvert it with a more Māori way of telling stories.

The advice I would give other novelists is read works that are similar and works that are different from what you want to write. Carve out regular writing time, it doesn’t matter if it is only a short amount of time as long as it is consistent. Give yourself time to dream — a lot of my writing time is just thinking time, figuring out the connections between thoughts.



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Lauren Keenan 

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Age:  42

Iwi:  Te Ātiawa ki Taranaki

Novel: Amorangi and Millie’s Trip Through Time. 

I grew up in Porirua, near Wellington. We later moved to New Plymouth, then a satellite town of Palmerston North, where I spent my formative years. I think where I grew up has informed my writing quite a bit, especially in terms of what we think of when we look at what it means to be a New Zealander. So much of our literature is set in either the big cities or rural/small towns. There isn’t so much about those awkward in-between places that have a real cross-section of people. All of my stories are set in those in-between places.

I am the oldest of four girls. It’s fabulous, being one of four girls. Sometimes it feels like we’re greater than the sum of our parts. Especially when we’re all together. The others may say I’m bossy being the eldest, but I beg to differ. 

I’ve had such a large range of writing influences. The single most meaningful was probably the American novelist Richard Yates. I’d never have read him myself, but my best friend gave me his book of short stories Eleven Kinds of Loneliness  for Christmas one year. I read it because it was a gift (and I was being polite). I remember just being blown away how he’d turned little, dull stories about regular people into this beautiful, meaningful commentary about the human condition. I put down the book after one of the stories and thought “that’s what I want to write.”

Closer to home, I can’t go past Witi Ihimaera in terms of influences. The New Net Goes Fishing was one of my favourite books in high school, and I’ve read it many times since. I realise now I’ve mentioned The New Net Goes Fishing and Eleven Kinds of Loneliness together that it’s the same thing about both of them that has left a strong impression on me – stories about regular people that have real emotional impact.

I’ve always loved writing, but never really thought that being a writer was something I could do seriously until very recently. It was always just a hobby on the side. The first story I remember getting critical acclaim for was one I wrote when I was eight about monkeys escaping from the zoo. The classmates loved it. Probably because the monkeys had the same names as the teachers …

Mostly I want to tell stories that help people learn more about important things like New Zealand history or human psychology. Although I don’t want my stories to be too earnest, either.  If I want to achieve anything with my writing, it’s helping people feel seen.

The Maori wahine voice in Aotearoa literature is important! I don’t think we all have the same voice, though. If I were to be super geeky about it, I’d say we’re like a Venn diagram of voices with lots of overlap between us but also the things that set us apart. But it’s that area of overlap that’s the most important part, because that captures a voice that hasn’t been heard enough historically. We’ve always been a bit-part in someone else’s story. Not the main part. I hope that the more Māori wāhine write, the more our young people feel emboldened to step forward and take their place in the world without feeling like things like books and writing aren’t for them.

My first novel was called Amorangi and Millie’s Trip Through Time published by Huia Publishers in 2022. It’s about two kids who lose their mum in the past and have to go up each branch of their family tree to find her. It’s about the relationship we have with our ancestors who have gone before us and has a significant focus on New Zealand history.        

Both of my grandmothers passed before I was born. My whole life I’ve had this fantasy of going back in time and hanging out with them. That feeling was the seed that this book grew from.

It was about two and a half years between writing the first word on my computer and seeing it in the shops. In terms of the writing itself it was about a year on and off, although most of the first draft was written during the big COVID lockdown in 2020. 

One of the hardest things about writing for me is having to either put drafts away to give yourself space or have it in the hands of other people so there’s nothing you can do on it at that particular time. It’s odd when that happens, like you’re working at something and living and breathing it, then all of a sudden there’s nothing you can do to take it forward. It’s taken me a few books to appreciate that’s actually an integral part of the process (and a chance to start something new!)

The highlight is seeing the actual book and thinking “wow, it’s not a Word document on my laptop anymore.” I’ve yet to experience that moment without having a wee tangi (of the happy variety, of course).

My issue isn’t so much having to make myself write – I have more of an issue with stopping, especially when I’m in flow. I think of it as stumbling into a writing-hole. This can turn me into a very boring person as well as a very sore person, as long stints at the keyboard are terrible ergonomically. So, I rely on my husband and kids to say to me “oi, that’s probably enough for today, now get some sleep!”

I think a real challenge for all diverse writers – certainly internationally – is that it can feel like there is only so much space in the market for diverse books. No-one ever says “oh, we can’t have another hardened ex-cop/ex-military/ex spy white guy in his 50s fighting crime because we have too many of those books already.” Yet, for books about people of colour or other diverse characters, this is a limitation to making it internationally. The books risk being put in the “other” box, even if the book itself has universal themes.

I have two more adult novels in the later stages of the editing process. I have also finished the second instalment in the Amorangi and Millie series and working on a third. 

My advice to aspiring writers is just start writing. Sometimes it takes 10,000 crap words before you write ten good ones. Believe me, that’s been my experience! 


Tamara Wharerau

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Age: 45

Iwi: Ngàpuhi, Tainui 

Novel: Dream Catcher – A Star Is Born The Celestial Adventures of Tamara Star

I was born in Papakura and grew up in Otahuhu South Auckland until I was about 20 years of age. I then moved to West Auckland. The environments that I’ve lived in and my life experiences have brought me to become a writer. My mother is an artist, poet, seamstress, knitter and designer. I would always find her visions and thoughts in the music records, art and poems she left lying around the house. I guess you can say I am a multi diverse creative who enjoys fusing my stories with other media because my mother taught me that there are no limits to your capabilities and dreams. 

During my younger years I remember reading some of my favourite stories written by Roald Dahl and Margaret Mahy; .James and The Giant Peach, Witches, Bad Jelly The Witch. 

My grandfather Waihoroi Shortland, and my uncle Lawrence Wharerau are both writers in television, film and journalism. They’ve both been my greatest influencers in writing. I never really thought that I’d become a writer, or a character in my own stories and movies or even a major public influencer. But I guess somehow along the way I followed in their footsteps. I loved family fantasy movies. They always seem to whisk me away into worlds far away from all the pain of the world and would take me and my family on magical journeys that I felt always brought us closer together. This is where my passion for writing tasteful and inspiring fantasy content would ignite my imagination and creativity. Somewhere in the back of my mind, I always knew I’d write the stories of my life. Because many moments of my life fascinate me.

The voices of our Màori Wàhine Toa are vital in today’s literature. We are natural leaders and nurturers. We hold universal knowledge and the keys to change the state of the world it is in today. Our tamariki and rangatahi are faced with many challenges nowadays and we as mothers and carers have solutions that have the ability to cleanse and clear the way. We as Màori Wàhine Toa have the tools to make the path smoother for our future generations. So that they can thrive and survive in a world that is forever changing.

My first novel is called Dream Catcher – A Star Is Born The Celestial Adventures of Tamara Star. It’s young adult fantasy book and audiobook is a story based on me. It’s about an adventure that takes me on a journey that shows me where I originated from before I entered this world. It connects me to my authentic self and to my Atua and Tūpuna. The book was self-published in 2022. I decided I wanted to have full control over my creations, so I didn’t prioritize getting published by a major publishing company. Being self-published means I receive 100% if the royalties and gives me the flexibility and control over how I wish to distribute and market it. 

The book was inspired by my own life. In 2006. after attempting to take my life, I was diagnosed with having a severe case of drug induced psychosis. I had over a long period of time overdosed on methamphetamine and a cocktail of A class drugs and alcohol. I was placed in ICU then into mental health care and rehabilitation for 4 weeks. I remember fighting for my life and praying to God to send me a life line out of the mess I had got myself into. I almost didn’t make it out alive. But Io eventually sent me Dream Catcher. I immediately began typing my story into my laptop. Dream Catcher has been my saviour and the key to unlocking my passion for writing. Dream Catcher has helped keep me alive the past 17 years. It’s the foundation for my purpose in this world, which is to educate our tamariki and rangatahi about the dangers of ‘meth’ drugs and alcohol. Dream Catcher is a symbol of how we’re better without them and how our dreams can support us through the hard times. Dream Catcher is proof that dreams are possible if only you believe. 

Writing and producing the book and audiobook while dealing with severe psychosis was the most challenging of all. I literally lived in a horror movie that played every second of the night and day for 15 years while I tried to deal with life in general as well as writing the book. Beneath the surface I was facing my demons. But amazingly I pushed through and in time the nightmares subsided. I kept reminding myself of my WHY? And the reason why I had been given a second chance at life.

My advice to other writers is to be bold and brave. Challenge the status quo and bust through all limitations keeping you imprisoned by the social constraints that stop your authenticity from shining. Be unique, dream big and be not only a writer but everything you secretly wish to be. Believe and trust in yourself And write with a purpose that will help change and make the world a better place.



How Sarah Arnold-Hall All her Achieves Success

Learning how her dad – the late great mountaineer Rob Hall – set out to achieve his entrepreneurial goals at a young age inspired Sarah Arnold-Hall to reach for the stars.

Many of us have goals, dreams or projects we want to get off the ground. But it can feel hard to come up with a plan, take action, and get the job done. After all, there is no school on how to follow through with dreams or how to harness motivation. Most of us get stuck in procrastination or “indecision confusion”.

Or we get distracted by the non-stop washing-machine-like-cycle of “the daily grind” i.e. all the things we need to do daily – usually for everyone else, but not ourselves.

Meet Sarah Arnold-Hall. She is a high-performance coach who helps people all over the world to achieve goals by overcoming procrastination.

Speaking with Sarah Arnold-Hall via zoom from her Wellington home, it is easy to see her coaching style is confident, motivating, uplifting, empathetic and powerfully informed by her own personal success at goal-crushing. She also has a strong depth of education that underpins her thinking including a degree in psychology and philosophy from Wellington’s Victoria University and a course in performance coaching from the High Performance Institute in Arizona.

You could call her an action girl. This may conjure up ideas of leather-clad celebrities in Hollywood movies with superpowers. But Arnold-Hall is more of a real-girl, beauty with brains, behind others’ strategic thinking. She lives on a high of sky-high confidence and is not afraid to strut confidently in sky high heels too.


She helps others to take bold, gutsy action on their goals by giving them a plan. She also helps to change clients’ performance mindset or guide them on how exactly to make career transitions.

She inspires clients on how to gain momentum by taking action. This is more important than trying to do things with perfectionism.



Here is a tile from her instagram, which shows the reality of showing up daily. It does not always feel like we do things fully and perfectly, but you keep gaining momentum over time.

Women particularly put a lot of pressure on themselves to do things perfectly. “We end up burning out much more quickly.”

Sarah Arnold-Hall helps women prioritise what they need to do and shift their thinking into believing in themselves to get things done. She works out the best steps and skips the rest. She helps women stay away from thoughts that “derail them” too and instead find evidence that everything is working and is on track.

The 26-year-old is achieving some remarkable results in the business world. She works with Silicon Valley leaders, YouTube stars, ordinary clients wanting a career pivot, to Olympians.

Among the inspiring client testimonials on her website is Olympian Apurvi Chandela, a former World Number 1 Rifle Shooter, who won a gold medal in 2019. Chandela writes in her testimonial that Sarah Arnold-Hall helped her through a phase of stagnancy in her career. Through their work together she lives with more self-confidence which keeps her focused.



The performance coach says she cannot give names of the Silicon Valley entrepreneurs she works with but reveals that one runs a self-drive truck company, while another creates robot arm technology. 

A YouTube star (with half a million subscribers) whom she has helped to transform to become a relationship coach is Katrin Berndt.

Part of Berndt’s testimony reads: “You won’t be able to go through her program without becoming the next best version of yourself.”



Another success story on Sarah Arnold-Hall’s website includes helping a client open a bookstore in 9 weeks during the pandemic, at which she made her sales target goal in just one day.

Most of Sarah Arnold-Hall’s clients are in America (60%), while the rest are in Europe, India, Britain, Australia and New Zealand. This is due to the success of her followings on Instagram and her podcast, How to Take Action. The podcast continues to have high engagement on Spotify

Clients join in on her online weekly Action Academy chats from around the world. Sarah Arnold-Hall reckons her superpower is specialising in helping clients overcome procrastination and to take action. She shares how to break through five key emotions which lead to procrastination.


5 Key Emotions that create Procrastination

1.  Confusion. 
Most people do not know what steps to take to achieve their goals. Arnold-Hall simplifies the steps to non-negotiable things to do, called “The All it Takes Plan”.

2.  Overwhelm. 
“I help people shift that thought that there is not enough time to execute the plan”.

3.  Self-Doubt. 
Women suffer from this more than men because we tend to question if we are good enough and get imposter syndrome. Sarah Arnold-Hall uses strategies like getting her clients to focus instead on how they might be helping others by putting their plan into action. This shifts the focus from self-doubt to empowering clients to help.

4.  Fear. 
This is usually based on a question of “what if I fail?” Sarah Arnold-Hall helps clients to steer their brains in a different direction and answer questions around what they are going to do to avoid failing.

5.  Lethargy. 
Sarah Arnold-Hall gets clients to understand that it is hard for us all to take action and this is normal. She steers clients on a route that is more “fun” and so the tasks are easier to action. Arnold-Hall’s entrepreneurial skills are in her blood. She is the daughter of the late legendary Kiwi mountaineer Rob Hall, who was awarded an MBE for mountaineering.

Rob Hall
Pictured supplied by Sarah Arnold-Hall.


She was not yet born when her pioneering father tragically lost his life on Everest in 1996. He made five ascents of the Earth’s highest peak, Mount Everest, and made headlines doing seven of the world’s highest summits in seven months.

Arnold-Hall says Kiwis tend to know her father for his mountaineering, but his entrepreneurship is what she connects with the most.

She draws on her famous father’s lesser-known business and entrepreneurial philosophies (shared with her via her mother). These skills have helped her build her own globally successful performance coaching business.

 “I have the same spirit and energy about making the impossible possible”.

She says learning how her father set out to achieve his entrepreneurial goals at a young age inspired her to become one of New Zealand’s only experts in overcoming procrastination.

“My dad left school at 16 and began working for AlpSports, where he learnt how to sew and manufacture. Then, when he was 24, he started his own business, called Outside – making outdoor equipment. Outside quickly grew, and he had several people working for him. Then at age 30, he co-founded a Himalayan guiding company that made it possible for skilled climbers to attempt peaks that were previously reserved for professional mountaineers. It’s a part of his life that is less well-known, but I feel most connected to my dad through our shared love of entrepreneurship and helping people achieve their goals.”

Today, she is focused on helping people simplify their “impossible goals” to make them achievable.

“My coaching philosophy is that if people can get themselves to simplify their plan and then actually follow through with it, they can hit any goal they set. We often make things harder for ourselves than is necessary when aiming to achieve big goals, which is why we end up procrastinating even on the things we most love to do.”

Arnold-Hall says she has not always had sky high confidence. She had to overcome imposter syndrome when she started coaching at age 21.

“I had some imposter syndrome about not being ‘old enough’, but over time I discovered that it’s not age that makes someone a great coach; it’s the depth of understanding of the tools”.

Arnold-Hall believes the same goes for entrepreneurship, something she started engaging with as a teenager through blogging. At 16, she realised during a school career day that she wanted to be in business for herself. She started a t-shirt line, a travel blog and a social media management business before discovering her aptitude for coaching.

She has built an unshakable trust that she can achieve her own goals too because it all comes down to one thing: Action.


Sarah Arnold-Hall


Some goals she has proudly hit include:

  • Climbing Mt Kilimanjaro.
  • Building an audience of 30,000 people.
  • Quitting her job to become her own boss full-time.
  • 50 consecutive push ups.
  • Meditating for 365 days in a row.
  • Hitting $200,000 yearly revenue in her own company. The next target is $1 million by 2025.


Specialising in group coaching, Arnold-Hall has helped a string of business leaders push through their barriers and simplify the path to their goals.

“You don’t need to give it 100% energy every day to move closer to your goal. Showing up matters more than showing up perfectly, so I encourage people dealing with overwhelm to ask themselves, ‘how might I be making this task harder than it needs to be?’”

In the aftermath of Covid, she is working with a lot of people who want to achieve big goals but feel overwhelmed by the huge tasks ahead of them.

“In 2023, people are feeling the pressure to ‘do it all’, but that pressure often ends up having the opposite effect, and procrastination seeps in. It’s an issue that affects even the most ambitious people, but you can overcome it if you learn how to consciously create your thoughts and feelings instead of letting them control you”.

Sarah Arnold-Hall says everyone can take back control of their goals and aspirations by learning effective techniques and tools to attain them.

“Being resourceful and able to ‘figure it out’ is what matters. My dad was extremely resourceful and great with people – he could always figure out how to create a situation where everyone felt like they had achieved what they wanted. I’m proud to help people achieve some truly incredible things – a passion I think aligns with my dad’s,” she says. 

5 Tips to Set Bold, Gutsy Goals

1.  Don’t be afraid to set impossible goals.

2.  Take a small action daily that pushes you forward.

3.  Simplify your goal as much as possible.

4.  Intentionally show up to discomfort. This is part of the process – for everyone.

5.  Time management is important. Schedule things into your day including fun stuff – so you know you can get it all done.

www.saraharnoldhall.com

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Grain & Greens Salad

Woman+'s Grains and Greens salad

THIS salad…is so darn good I have to share it with you. It’s jam-packed with bursts of flavour and texture and I do love using a wholegrain as the backbone for a salad. 

Are you ready to take your taste buds on an adventure? Look no further than this Grain & Greens Salad recipe! Packed with an explosion of flavors and textures, this salad is sure to become a staple in your recipe repertoire. Using freekeh, a Middle Eastern grain, as the base, this salad is high in protein and fiber while still being satisfyingly chewy and nutty. Roasted grapes, thinly sliced roasted red peppers, chopped roasted almonds, pumpkin and sunflower seeds, and feta all come together in a deliciously fresh and healthy salad that’s perfect for lunch or dinner. So, roll up your sleeves and get ready to make a salad that will make your taste buds sing!

Serves 6-8 

Ingredients

Salad 

  • 1 cup freekeh (can use farro, barley or quinoa) 
  • 1 cup grapes 
  • 3 cups rocket
  • 2 roasted red peppers, thinly sliced 
  • ¼ cup parsley, finely chopped
  • Big handful each of basil and mint 
  • ½ cup chopped roasted almonds
  • ¼ cup each pumpkin and sunflower seeds 
  • 100g feta
  • Lemon wedges to serve

Dressing 

  • 2 tablespoons pomegranate molasses
  • 3 tablespoons red wine vinegar 
  • Juice of one juicy orange
  • ½ teaspoon salt and a decent grind of black pepper


Method

  • Boiling freekeh in 3 cups of well-salted water until tender but still chewy – about 30 minutes. Drain and cool. This can be done ahead of time. 
  • Whilst grains cook, roast grapes at 160 C for 30-45 minutes. Cool. 
  • When ready to serve, whisk the dressing ingredients together in a large bowl. Toss in everything else except the feta and lemon wedges and turn to coat in the dressing. Top with feta, scatter lemon wedges over top and serve.


Nici’s note: I’ve used freekeh, a young wheat grain popular in Middle Eastern cuisine.  Once cooked it’s chewy and nutty, and high in protein and fibre. Feel free to use barley, farro, quinoa or even brown rice.  

Affogato For Afters

This is the perfect little sweet treat – vanilla ice cream drowned in espresso coffee and topped with toasted, crushed hazelnuts. Add a shot of liqueur if you fancy. Bellissimo! 

Serves 8 



Ingredients

½ cup hazelnuts, toasted and roughly chopped 
2 cups very strong espresso coffee
8 scoops good quality vanilla ice cream 
8 tablespoons amaretto, Kahlúa or other liqueur (optional)



Method

Scoop vanilla ice cream into small, pre-chilled glasses or cups. 
Pour over ¼ cup hot espresso over the top and top with hazelnuts. Add a shot of liqueur (optional) and serve immediately.

Nici’s note: For kids, use decaf coffee or hot chocolate and leave out the liqueur obviously!



Four Years Afters The Christchurch Mosque Attacks: What Has The Government Done Since?

Christchurch Mosque Attacks - Four years on

Remembrance of Christchurch Mosque Attacks

It’s March 15. Some call it one of the darkest dates in New Zealand history, the day a terrorist walked into two mosques in Christchurch and killed 51 people. Today marks four years since that day. And while the last four years have been full of other challenges, with Covid, its aftermath, then floods and a Cyclone, still the memory of March 15 hasn’t faded for New Zealanders.

In the aftermath of the Christchurch Mosque attacks, we came together, grieved collectively, and offered support and sympathy to the Muslim communities. That effort helped us to push back, for a short moment, against the hate we had perceived. At the same time, we were all asking how such a thing could happen here in New Zealand. We had assumed we were innocent, and hate-based atrocities only happened in other countries, far away. 

The Rise of Islamophobia in New Zealand

But for some members of the Muslim communities, the March 15 massacres were not such a surprise. Islamophobia was on the rise internationally following the emergence of ISIS, and Muslim communities were noticing higher levels of marginalisation, discrimination and hate in their day-to-day lives. Muslim women who wear hijab (headscarf) were targeted the most, due to their visible affiliation with Islam, and the politicised view of hijab in Western societies. The Islamic Women’s Council of New Zealand (IWCNZ) had been around since 1989, and had built connections with local communities across the country. Many IWCNZ members were concerned over the increasing incidents of hostility targeted against Muslim communities. Between 2014 and 2018, these women had raised their concerns repeatedly with government officials, and different agencies including NZSIS and suggested areas that needed more attention, but no action was taken prior to the mosque shootings. 

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The Royal Commission of Inquiry

The scale and shock of the tragedy made it obviously necessary to do a serious investigation. Ten days after the shooting, the government established a Royal Commission of Inquiry into the mosque shootings, mainly to answer three basic questions: What did state-sector agencies know about the shooter before the Christchurch Mosque Attacks? What measures could have been taken to prevent it? And most importantly, what must be done to prevent such horrors in the future?

The Commission’s report, which followed 20 months of consultation involving government agencies, NGOs, and diverse local communities, reached a number of conclusions. For example, it found that the government security agencies had placed “an inappropriate concentration of counter-terrorism resources on the threat of Islamist extremist terrorism.” Also, the police had failed to enforce proper checks on firearm licenses, as the terrorist did not meet “the required standards” for receiving his license.

The Commission’s Findings and Recommendations Since The Christchurch Mosque Attacks

However, the Commission also concluded that “nothing” could have been done to stop the Christchurch Mosque Attacks, since it had no available information that “could or should alert” the related agencies about the attack—except the email that the shooter sent to the parliamentary service, eight minutes before he started the attacks.

Looking into the recommendations and how to prevent such attacks in the future, it’s clear there’s still a lot that needs to be done by the government. At the same time, there are some pieces like enhancing “social cohesion” that need collective efforts from all of us, and require some level of self-reflection, self-implication, and in some cases speaking up about what we know is not okay.


Social cohesion mostly refers to “respecting each others’ differences, and at the same time developing some shared values, norms, and experiences as a society.”



Progress Made Since The Christchurch Mosque Attacks

In reviewing the last four years, there have been lots of changes, such as the immediate change of the gun law to restrict access to semi-automatic weapons and tighten gun licensing standards. A Ministry of Ethnic Communities was established, which strengthened New Zealand’s counter-terrorism legislation, established a National Centre of Research Excellence, and held some in-depth, nationwide conversations regarding the importance of social inclusion and diversity. At the same time, it’s important to know that there is still a long way to go. Of the 44 recommendations put forward by the Commission, many are still waiting to be implemented. Diverse communities, particularly Muslim communities, are still experiencing discrimination in their day-to-day lives. Many of the affected whanau who lost loved ones in the shooting are still searching for closure.


Wellington artist Ruby Jones designed the cover of Time Magazine in the wake of the Christchurch mosque shootings



Māori Stand-up Comics Unite To Raise Funds For Cyclone Victims

A Shortland Street actor, an award-winning journalist, and a father-and-daughter comedy duo walks into a bar. No, this isn’t a joke. It’s the line-up of some of the Māori stand-up comedians who are joining forces to raise funds for whānau who have been impacted by Cyclone Gabrielle.

Kura Forrester, Kura Turuwhenua, Albert Belz, Bailey Poching, Courtney Dawson, Aroha Awarau, Heta Dawson, Joel McCarthy.  

 

The Māori Comic Relief benefit will be headlined by Shortland Street actor Kura Forrester. She will be joined by some of the funniest Māori comedians in the business, including  Albert Belz, Kura Turuwhenua, Bailey Poching, Courtney Dawson, Heta Dawson, Joel McCarthy, and Aroha Awarau. 

Forrester says that performing her comedy on stage is the best way that she can help her whānau in the East Coast town of Tokumaru Bay, which was devastated by the recent cyclone.  

“I feel honoured to perform in this show and give back with what I love doing most – performing. My whānau have always been my biggest supporters. I wanted to help them,” she says.  

“My whānau in Tokomaru Bay are the most resilient and funny people I know, so I owe a lot to them when it comes to knowing how to tell a good story. It feels really special to be a part of this Māori comedy line up.” 

“When I was starting out as a stand up there weren’t any shows like this. I feel really empowered and uplifted to be sharing the stage alongside other Māori comedians who are coming together for a very good cause.” 

The line-up includes award-winning comedians like Forrester, winner of the 2019 Billy T Award; Turuwhenua, winner of the 2022 RAW Comedy Quest; Poching who was Best Newcomer at the NZ Comedy Guild Awards;  the Dawsons, who are a father and daughter comedy duo who have been named a finalist and winner of the RAW Comedy Quest;  Belz, a former Shortland Street actor, and playwright who appeared on TV’s Pulp Comedy; McCarthy, who was a finalist at the 2020 RAW Comedy Quest, and Awarau, an award-winning journalist and playwright who was a finalist at the 2000 RAW Comedy Quest.  

Producer and comic, Belz, of Kaituhi Creative, says the idea for the fundraiser came to him while he was admiring a picture of comedy icon Billy T James hanging on the wall backstage at the Classic Comedy Club in Auckland while Belz was waiting to perform.    

“I recalled the force of Cyclone Gabrielle smashing into small Māori communities I knew so well, and felt helpless to do anything about it. I had a moment in the green room and wondered what it would be like to jam some comedy with an all-Māori crew?” he explains.  

“Then it hit me. Get a bunch of Māori comedians together and hit it out of the ballpark with laughter and fund-raising!”.   

Māori Comic Relief is at Te Pou Theatre, Corban Estate Arts Centre, 2 Mount Lebanon Lane, Henderson on 1st April at 7:30pm.  Tickets at: www.tepoutheatre.nz


Exploring the Wonders of Routeburn Track

Amy Prebble swaps high heels for hiking boots and falls for the wonders of one of New Zealand’s great walks. The Routeburn Track Guided Walk with Ultimate Hikes is a three-day, two-night walk through Fiordland and Mount Aspiring National Parks

“You want to walk the Routeburn Track?” my husband exclaims. “I would have thought you were too much of a princess for that!”

Walter’s not the only one who thinks I’m pampered – my nickname at a previous job was “Princess Amy” – but what he doesn’t realise is that I’ve been offered the chance to soak up the spectacular sights of the world-famous Routeburn in (relative) comfort, on a guided walk with Ultimate Hikes. So, rather than stuffing my pack with pots and sleeping bags and whatever else outdoorsy types cram in there, I only need to carry my clothes, because I’ll be sleeping in a luxury lodge and stuffing my face with a three-course meal each night. How could even a princess possibly resist?

I don’t own any Great Walks-appropriate clothing, so I buy a pair of hiking boots and some quick-drying but not necessarily flattering garments. Naturally, I wear the boots prior to the walk to break them in. (Once up One Tree Hill and once around the office).

The day before the walk starts, Walt and I fly into Queenstown, and Ultimate Hikes gives us a briefing about what to expect, in a room that looks a bit like a compact lecture theatre. The company started offering multi-day guided walks on the Routeburn in 1989 (and the Milford Track in 1992), so this is a slick operation. They can lend you a backpack and a one size fits most rain jacket, which is perfect for people like us, who may never use such things again.

The team show us some snaps of the magnificent sights along the 32km walk, which goes from The Divide in Fiordland National Park to Route Burn near Glenorchy (burn being a Scottish word for stream).

They stress many times that the temperature can swiftly go from scorching to bone-chilling, so layers of clothing (that aren’t cotton) are essential. I stock up on an extra pair of merino leggings, just to be safe.


“Give a girl the correct footwear and she can conquer the world”.

Day one: We arrive at the depot at 6.30am and hand over our (mostly identical) backpacks. Our guides, Sophie, Josh, John and Kana all look very fi t. Our group of 36 is a mixed bag of athletic ability and hiking experience, aged from 10 to 70. Most of us are Kiwis and we’re all pretty chuffed to be on a walk that would have been booked out months in advance pre-Covid.

At The Divide, we pick up packed lunches (that later prove to be delicious) and get going. There’s always one guide at the front, two social butterflies in the middle and a tail-end Charlie, making sure no walker is left behind. I start off talking to Josh, who is on his second season as a guide although he didn’t get much of a chance last season.



Be bold, start cold.


First, there was a devastating storm in February 2020, causing major flooding and landslides that closed both the Milford and Routeburn tracks, and then, of course, came Covid. He’s evidently delighted to get another opportunity this season, though there are fewer trips without the international visitors.

From the carpark, it’s a lovely, well-formed track through alpine plants, but I have other things on my mind. This is my first time with a big-ish backpack, and I’m like a baby tortoise. Even though I can teeter on stilettos while clutching a Champagne flute without incident, put me in flats with a backpack and it’s impossible to maintain my dignity. I fall over a total of three times on day one as I get used to the weight pitching me forward when I lean over (or back as I’m wading through a river).

Everyone is very kind, and some people even offer me their walking poles, which are recommended accessories on this track – and I’m sure that’s all very sensible but I’m clumsy and I worry I’ll stab myself in the foot with one, so I make do without. Slowly, but not particularly surely, I reach Key Summit.

Here, I’m treated to views down three valleys, with water flowing to three different coasts. How to describe this outlook adequately?

Glorious, stunning and mind-blowing are adjectives that spring to mind. We then head down to Lake Howden Hut for a hot drink (Kana carried four flasks in her backpack to make that happen!) and picnic lunch, before gradually climbing through ethereal silver beech forest to Earland Falls. From there, the descent to Mackenzie Lodge is very steep, rocky and treacherous. After three knocks already, I don’t need any encouragement to take it slowly, and if I do say so myself, I get to the bottom like a champion mature tortoise.

Walt and I hadn’t known what to expect from the lodges and had anticipated lining up to wait for a hot shower. Imagine our joy when we walked into our cosy little room and spotted the en suite! Once freshly showered, we wash our clothes, put them through the wringer and bung them in the drying room.

The facilities are so good, you could totally get away with just a couple of outfitts.

Also, for those who sniggered about how casually I wore in my boots they were supremely comfortable and I made it through day one blister-free. Walt’s elderly boots fell apart though   luckily, John fixed them for him, MacGyver-style, with a few ties.

There is wine and cheese laid out for everyone to enjoy pre-dinner, then we tuck in to our meal (Ultimate Hikes has had the food helicoptered in!) before heading to bed to sleep the blissful slumber of the well-fed and totally exhausted.

Day two: It’s brisk at 9am when we gather, ready for our next walk, so I’m grateful for the jacket and woollen beanie with which I expanded my outdoor wardrobe (thanks, Rebel Sport!). Despite the chill, I’m wearing shorts (and I never wear shorts), because John recommends beginning the day cold, as you quickly warm up on the steep climb from MacKenzie Hut to Ocean Peak Corner.


 Amy Prebble at the Routeburn Track


Everything else he’s said has been correct (“You should use walking poles”; “Put a raincoat on before going past Earland Falls”) so I’m learning to listen to him. Sure enough, 10 minutes into the climb through breathtaking ancient forest, I’m as warm as toast.

It’s uneven and steep in places, but the hard slog is worth it when you take in the view of the Darran Mountains. We stop for lunch at the Harris Saddle, where I get chatting to Alastair and Diana Dunbar, who own a deer farm in Hanmer Springs. This is their second outing with Ultimate Hikes. They did the Milford Track the previous year when there was a cyclone and heavy rain.

“It was touch and go whether we could go over Mackinnon Pass,” says Alastair. “We had to go over huddled like sheep in groups of about 10!”


Routeburn Track
Alastair Dunbar


“And that didn’t put you off doing other walks?” I ask.

“Oh no! It sort of added to the adventure, really,” he says with a laugh.

At 68, Alastair is super fit (through a combo of biking and farming) and leaves pen-pushers like Walt and me for dead up the hills. After lunch, you’re given the option to tackle Conical Hill for a panoramic view of the surrounding peaks. There’s a lot of snow when we’re there and my ears prick up when Kana describes this part as “challenging”. Alastair’s among the first to head up, but Walt and I opt to go straight to Routeburn Falls Lodge rather than take the detour. So does Diana. As I’m following her, I notice that her backpack is basically the size of a school bag.

“Gosh, you travel light,” I say. She smiles. “Alastair carries most of our gear.” This is absolutely the most romantic thing I’ve ever heard.

Don’t even think about it,  whispers Walt. Even without scaling Conical Hill, we get an incredible vista of Lake Harris as we descend into the upper basins of the Routeburn Valley. Routeburn Falls Lodge is like something on a postcard, and I’m very taken with the mountain views from our room. I’m also pleased I made it through without a single fall

Day three: It’s pouring with rain. I’m secretly pleased, because I have brand-new rain pants that I spent a fortune on. John begins with a cheery quote from Dr Seuss and we set off. This is much easier than the walks of the previous two days. It’s basically all downhill, so you can relax and enjoy the dramatic landscape around the Routeburn Falls as you make your way to Forge Flat for the last lunch stop.

This is the first time I’m bothered by the sandflies that everyone mutters about in this area. But even the little bloodsuckers can’t get me down, because from here it’s just a gentle stroll through the forest to the road.

The sense of accomplishment at finishing this magnificent hike is enormous. I’m so pleased with myself, I could do a little jig if I wasn’t wearing a heavy pack and my legs weren’t so tired.

The first person to congratulate me is the youngest member of the group, Bodhi Griffiths, who has impeccable manners, especially for a 10-year-old.

Well done! You made it, he says, smiling.

He was right beside me when I fell (quite dramatically) the first time, so he may have doubted my capability.

I ask if he’s tired, and he replies matter of-factly,  I cannot walk another step. But it was worth it to see all this. Like, ‘Wow.’ 

I couldn’t have said it better myself.


Routeburn Track


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First Gin In a Paper Bottle Brand : Mothers Ruined:

Is making Gin easy? Ask Jo Davy and she’ll happily discuss the art of making and the finer points of drinking. Turns out making Gin in a paper bottle is not so terribly difficult in comparison to making wine or other spirits but getting a building registered and certified to make gin in the first place is more gruelling than a hike in the snow with slippers on. 

Jo Davy, a Wellington Scientist and her friend Helen Gower can vouch for this having just launched their own handcrafted botanical gin ‘Mothers Ruined’. The drink was conceived and distilled in Helen’s converted double garage on Wellington’s South coast.

A New Business Venture

A new business venture always has an origin story, some kind of catalyst and more often starts with a conversation over a drink. Helen and Jo first met each other while studying science at Swansea University in 1993. Life happened to them in the intervening years (having children, getting married etc..) but fast track to New Zealand where they had both emigrated and one day in that strange lee between lockdowns 2020 the pair met again at an event and had a gin together. Jo, who works for the New Zealand government, said: 

“We both have day jobs but wanted to do something a bit different together in our spare time. My brother had recently died and I felt I had to do some extra living for him”.

A spark of an idea about making their own gin in a paper bottle quickly turned into a serious plan.


Behind Helen and Jo is their Gin in a Paper bottle


The Process

The pair purchased a stil from Portugal and began meeting up in the double garage of Helen’s house in Breaker Bay.

The hard part was the months and months of bureaucracy and jumping through countless hoops with Wellington City Council, Customs and Excise, and Food and Safety to actually get the distillery fully operational but last week the last bit of paperwork was signed off.

“Formaggeddon is done!” says Jo, admitting that there were many layers of complexity that they didn’t understand when they first set out. The legalities around alcohol are complex and many.

“It was probably a good thing we didn’t know or we might not have started the venture in the first place” she says. 

“New Zealand is one of the few countries in the world where you can distil for home consumption without any sort  of licence so we were able to do the experimenting and developing and perfecting our recipes easily in the corner of the garage”

“That was the super fun part of it”, says Jo merrily. “The legal position is if it’s for home consumption then legally only Helen and I were allowed to drink it, which was fine!”


Family Business

Form filling over, the two friends can concentrate on the part of the business they’re excited about. The production and selling of their handcrafted botanical gin with papercut artwork by Jo’s sister in law and a design and logo by Aucklander Adam McCauley.

The massive point of difference that the pair are delighted by is their packaging. They are the first drinks brand to launch a paper bottle in New Zealand using the Frugal Bottle, a recycled product that is five times lighter than glass and has a carbon footprint up to six times lower. 

For both women this is a side hustle. Helen is a cancer researcher and Jo works for biosecurity in Wellington.

“We are not out to try to convince customers to drink heavily. Our motto is ‘Take it slow, ‘ Jo says. “Have one drink but make it something good. Rather than sculling 4 rubbish G & T’s just have one and make it a good one”.


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Who Are Going To Be NZ’s Next Ockham Book Awards winners?

The just announced shortlist begins the countdown! Bigger further faster wider. The main takeaway from this year’s Ockham Book Awards shortlist is that we’re publishing across a wider range of subjects than ever before.

The Ockham New Zealand Book Awards, formerly known as the New Zealand Book Awards, are a series of literary awards that recognize excellence in New Zealand literature. The awards are given in four categories: fiction, poetry, non-fiction, and illustrated non-fiction and books must have been published in New Zealand in the preceding calendar year to be eligible for consideration. 

A panel of judges in each section winnowed down the longlist of 44 books to 16 titles. If a prize was awarded to diversity this shortlist would win. 

New Zealand Book Awards Trust spokesperson Jenna Todd says 

“There is no one dominating publisher this year with a range of 12 publishers shortlisted across 16 titles” 

Not that the average reader is counting. Does anyone outside the industry name check a publisher when they talk about books? 

But just as variety is the spice of life it’s also the coin in publishing. Right now when we’re at pains to capture as many truths and mental states that people experience, publishing in Aotearoa is stepping up. From a thorough explanation of The English Text of the Treaty of Waitangi by Ned Fletcher (Bridget Williams Books) to a genius novel narrated through the cocked eye of a magpie –The Axeman’s Carnival by Catherine Chidgey (Te Herenga Waka University Press) you can certainly say the shortlist contains multitudes.

I’m thrilled to see some of my favourite books of last year sitting there – Rachel Bucanon’s stunning Te Motonui Epā, the lilting memoir Grand by Noelle McCarthy, Joanna Cho’s People Person and We’re made of Lightning by Khadro Mohamed. As usual the non fiction and Illustrated non fiction shortlist contain the same ole awkwardness with big books of scholarship rubbing shoulders with small and perfectly formed volumes of subjective narrative. How the heck will a cultural history of the sixties Jumping Sundays by Nick Bollinger be judged against a comprehensive catalogue and serious assessment of the artist Robin White? But thankfully that’s not my job.

Each book on the list has met a threshold deserving of being read. Though only four of them will be grand prize winners, the shortlist is all! As the writer Nigel Cox (who was shortlisted more than once and never won) said “Awards matter terribly while you’re in the running and then suddenly and completely not at all”. 

Judges comments are always guarded offering up little more than a rallying cheer for everyone on board. Not wanting to give the game away, it’s easier to try and say something about what the shortlist looks like, which is about as meaningful as discussing a patchwork quilt and not mentioning the peggy squares.

Diane Brown, the convener of judges for the Mary and Peter Biggs Award for Poetry, has emphasized the selection of collections that raised challenging questions, stimulated imagination and required attention from the readers. 

Jared Davidson, the convener of judges for the Booksellers Aotearoa New Zealand Award for Illustrated Non-Fiction, praised the shortlisted works for their innovative designs and engaging storytelling, which have redefined the traditional concept of illustrated non-fiction. He highlighted the use of zine-like textures, elegant typography, and exquisite illustrations as signs of confidence in the current state of book production, with visual excellence complementing the books’ pertinent and captivating content. 

Anna Rawhiti-Connell, the convener of judges for the General Non-Fiction Award, noted the diversity of forms exhibited in the shortlisted works, which showcase the broad scope of non-fiction writing in New Zealand and the authors’ mastery of their craft. 

British writer, publisher and host of the books podcast Backlisted, John Mitchinson, will assist the three New Zealand judges to select the fiction winner. 

Get in the game and start reading the shortlist now. We’ll be running competitions over the next couple of months to win copies of the books so stay tuned.


The 2023 Ockham New Zealand Book Awards shortlisted titles are:

*represents debut authors

Jann Medlicott Acorn Prize for Fiction


Better the Blood by Michael Bennett

Better the Blood by Michael Bennett
(Ngāti Pikiao, Ngāti Whakaue)
(Simon & Schuster)


Kāwai: For Such a Time as This

Kāwai: For Such a Time as This by Monty Soutar
(Ngāti Porou, Ngāti Awa, Ngāi Tai ki Tāmaki, Ngāti Kahungunu)
(Bateman Books)


Mrs Jewell and the Wreck of the General Grant

Mrs Jewell and the Wreck of the General Grant by Cristina Sanders
(The Cuba Press)


The Axeman’s Carnival

The Axeman’s Carnival by Catherine Chidgey
(Te Herenga Waka University Press)


Mary and Peter Biggs Award for Poetry


Always Italicise: How to Write While Colonised

Always Italicise: How to Write While Colonised by Alice Te Punga Somerville
(Te Āti Awa, Taranaki)
(Auckland University Press)


People Person

People Person by Joanna Cho (Te Herenga Waka University Press)*


Sedition

Sedition by Anahera Maire Gildea (Ngāti Tukorehe)
(Taraheke | Bush Lawyer)*


We’re All Made of Lightning

We’re All Made of Lightning by Khadro Mohamed (We Are Babies Press, Tender Press)*


Booksellers Aotearoa New Zealand Award for Illustrated Non-Fiction


Jumping Sundays: The Rise and Fall of the Counterculture

Jumping Sundays: The Rise and Fall of the Counterculture in Aotearoa New Zealand by Nick Bollinger (Auckland University Press)


Robin White: Something is Happening Here

Robin White: Something is Happening Here edited by Sarah Farrar, Jill Trevelyan and Nina Tonga (Te Papa Press and Auckland Art Gallery Toi o Tāmaki)


Secrets of the Sea: The Story of New Zealand’s Native Sea Creatures

Secrets of the Sea: The Story of New Zealand’s Native Sea Creatures by Robert Vennell (HarperCollins)


Te Motunui Epa

Te Motunui Epa by Rachel Buchanan (Taranaki, Te Ātiawa)
(Bridget Williams Books)

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General Non-Fiction Award


A Fire in the Belly of Hineāmaru: A Collection of Narratives about Te Tai Tokerau Tūpuna

A Fire in the Belly of Hineāmaru: A Collection of Narratives about Te Tai Tokerau Tūpuna by Melinda Webber (Ngāti Kahu, Ngāti Hau, Ngāti Hine, Ngāpuhi, Ngāti Whakaue) and Te Kapua O’Connor (Ngāti Kurī, Pohūtiare) (Auckland University Press)


Downfall: The Destruction of Charles Mackay

Downfall: The Destruction of Charles Mackay by Paul Diamond
(Ngāti Hauā, Te Rarawa, Ngāpuhi)


Grand: Becoming my Mother’s Daughter

Grand: Becoming my Mother’s Daughter by Noelle McCarthy
(Penguin, Penguin Random House)*


Related Article: Writer and broadcaster Noelle McCarthy unravels her family ties


The English Text of the Treaty of Waitangi

The English Text of the Treaty of Waitangi by Ned Fletcher (Bridget Williams Books)*


The 2023 Ockham New Zealand Book Awards’ winners, including four Best First Book Awards recipients which are this year supported by the Mātātuhi Foundation, will be announced at a public ceremony on 17 May during the 2023 Auckland Writers Festival. 

The winner of the Jann Medlicott Acorn Prize for Fiction will receive $64,000 in 2023 and each of the other main category prizes will earn their winners $12,000 (up from $10,000 in recent years). Each of the Best First Book winners, for fiction, poetry, general non-fiction and illustrated non-fiction, will be awarded $3000 (up from $2500).

The Ockham New Zealand Book Awards are supported by Ockham Residential, Creative New Zealand, Jann Medlicott and the Acorn Foundation, Mary and Peter Biggs CNZM, Booksellers Aotearoa New Zealand, the Mātātuhi Foundation, and the Auckland Writers Festival.


Win! ‘Tastes of Summer’ picnic with Brown Brothers

Brown Brothers, the home of some of Australia’s favourite wines for more than 134 years, is giving one lucky winner the chance to win a ‘Tastes of Summer’ picnic experience. 

With Women’s month in full swing, celebrate the wonderful women in your life while enjoying a beautiful afternoon picnic setting of handcrafted feasting tables, plush velvet pillows and beautiful florals alongside Brown Brothers Moscato and Fruity range of wines.

During the 2-hour Tastes of Summer picnic experience, the winner and up to five guests can relax and chill out in their own private picnic setting while indulging in a delicious spread including a customised gourmet grazing platter and sweet treats alongside a selection of picnic perfect Brown Brothers wines.



  • Brown Brothers Moscato – Brown Brothers Moscato 2021 is Australia’s number one selling white wine, and it’s easy to see why. This gorgeous fruity wine is a little lower in alcohol with a natural sweetness. Refreshing and vibrant, it’s beautifully clean with a light straw colour and some youthful green tinges. The nose is lifted with aromas of musk, citrus, and freshly crushed grapes.  
  • Brown Brothers Sparkling Moscato Rosé – This gorgeous wine has a bright pink strawberry hue, giving it a light and delicate appearance. Due to a small addition of Brown Brothers Cienna, the wine has lifted red berry aromas along with freshly crushed grapes and a spicy perfume. The palate also shows these characters along with a fruitiness that is balanced by acidity and the refreshing full sparkling sensation.  
  • Brown Brothers Cienna- This vibrant ruby red wine has aromas of fresh red berry fruit and a hint of spice. With fruit sweetness on the palate, it is rich and juicy with a light bubble to the finish. A sip of this wine is like tasting summer berries in a glass, while the mixture of natural acidity and fruit sweetness leaves a refreshing sensation on the palate.  

The Brown Brothers family winemakers love nothing more than celebrating the joy of wine, and they truly are the experts when it comes to making Moscato and Fruity wines, with their winemakers taking great care to produce a range that caters to all tastebuds. 

With so many great wines to choose from, one can be certain to find a wine from the Brown Brothers Moscato and Fruity range that’s fun and fabulous whatever the occasion. 



Ts and Cs

1.This competition is available to NZ residents aged 21 and over.  
2.Competition running date is 8 March – 31 March 2023.
3.Only one entry is accepted per person. Entries on behalf of another person will not be accepted and joint submissions are not allowed. 
4. Picnic must be held within two months of the prize winner being notified.
5. Daytime picnic only – times lots are usually between 12-3pm. 
6. If date arranged and the picnic is unable to proceed due to weather another date can be made.
7. Picnic must be held within Auckland, NZ (or 20Km radius).
8. Location can be someone’s home providing access is straightforward or we have some wonderful public locations we can suggest – such as Bastion Point or Cornwall Park.
9. No unlimited communications for picnic arrangements – must be confirmed within three days of initial contact.
10.No responsibility is taken for entries which are lost, delayed, misdirected or incomplete or cannot be delivered or entered for any technical or other reason.  
11.The prize is non-exchangeable, non-transferable, and is not redeemable for cash or other prizes. Brown Brothers accepts no responsibility for any costs associated with the prize and not specifically included in the prize, including, without limitation, costs of transfers, meals etc. 
12. Brown Brothers retains the right to substitute the prize with another prize of similar value in the event the original prize offered is not available due to circumstances beyond its reasonable control. 
13. No purchase necessary to enter. 
14. Brown Brothers shall have the right to disqualify an entrant who fails to comply with these Terms and Conditions. 
15. Brown Brothers and the competition sponsor accept no responsibility for any damage, loss, liabilities, injury, or disappointment incurred or suffered by you as a result of entering the Competition or accepting the prize. Brown Brothers and the competition sponsor further disclaim liability for any injury or damage to your or any other person’s computer relating to or resulting from participation in or downloading any materials in connection with the Competition. Nothing shall exclude the liability of Brown Brothers and the competition sponsor for death or personal injury as a result of either party’s negligence. 
16. Brown Brothers and the competition sponsor reserve the right at any time and from time to time to modify or discontinue, temporarily or permanently, this Competition with or without prior notice due to reasons outside their control. 
17. This promotion will be governed by NZ law. 
18. Picnic can’t be done on Easter weekend

#EmbracingEquity

In 1975 on March 8th, International Women’s Day was first celebrated by the United Nations with an aim to eliminate discrimination against women. This year the theme is #EmbracingEquity. Though as Alison Mau pointed out in a piece in Stuff last weekend titled “Don’t waste your time this International Women’s Day” it feels more and more like a convenient opportunity for corporate companies to improve their brand and virtue signal without actually doing very much.

“In recent years” she writes “  IWD (which has been around since 1911) has become a handy date for corporates to flag their support for women’s equity by holding panels and brunches and other ‘events’ which often mask a lack of meaningful progress behind the scenes. Much easier to do a one-and-done cupcake run, one day a year, than do the mahi to create real change.

But while it’s hard not to feel grumpy, (I mean how many iterations of feminism before we no longer need the term, FFS) we still have to seek out justice by engaging with the world. To quote Lydia Millet in a Kim Hill interview recently talking about her rage on climate change “You can’t remain passive infinitely and [invite] hope to settle on you like Emily Dickinson’s bird.”

Women have been fighting for equality for decades, and yet the fight still continues. It is a battle that has been waged on many fronts, from the workplace to education to healthcare. 

By telling the stories of women who have overcome obstacles and achieved success, we can help to shift the narrative around gender equality.

One such woman is Kirstine Bartlett, a New Zealand aged-care worker who became a prominent advocate for fair pay for low-wage workers in the healthcare sector. In 2017, Bartlett won a landmark legal battle against her employer, TerraNova Homes & Care, which resulted in a significant pay increase for thousands of care workers in the country. When she took her employers to court working as a carer for the elderly for over 40 years in a job she loved, she was earning just $14.46 per hour slightly above the minimum wage at the time.

Bartlett’s case centred on the argument that care workers, who were mostly women, were being paid less than workers in male-dominated industries despite doing work of equal value. The case was based on the principle of “equal pay for work of equal value,” which is enshrined in New Zealand’s Equal Pay Act. Bartlett argued that her work as a caregiver involved a significant amount of skill, responsibility, and emotional labour, which should be compensated for fairly. Extraordinary to think this change only happened less than six years ago. Wasn’t equal pay the subject of demonstrations in the sixties?

Systemic barriers still exist and these barriers are not just the result of individual prejudices or biases; they are reinforced by laws, policies, and social norms that perpetuate gender inequality and are built into the very fabric of our society.

This year’s theme of equity for women is not just a matter of principle; it is a matter of practicality. Women make up half of the population and are essential contributors to the economy and society as a whole. When we limit those opportunities, we limit the collective potential. 


So how do others see equity playing out in Aotearoa?


Sharon Zollner, ANZ NZ Chief Economist

To me, equity means recognising that not everyone has the same position on the starting line and allowing for that. Better data, in particular longitudinal studies about how people’s lives unfold, not just snapshots in time, would help us achieve a better distribution of outcomes.



Hon. Jan Tinetti, Minister for Women

Equity is about ensuring people have what they need to fulfil their potential.The goal of equity is to address barriers that get in the way of people’s ability to thrive. We should take the time today to consider what stands in the way of equity for women across Aotearoa, and how we can help address those barriers.



Sarah P Sparks Managing Director, Communications Consultant,

Equity is about having the maturity, intelligence, courage and compassion to play your part respecting and empowering diverse cohorts within our collective so they can be the best that they can be.

The historical ‘one-size-fits-all’ mindset and manifestation of societal systems is a dead duck. Everyone loves using the word “equity” but it’s about the ‘how’ and rests with having the humility to go to the people who have been oppressed and marginalised by the system who have the answers.

“Kei a tatou ano te ara tika.” The answers lie within us. Take heed of those voices and evolve.



Nicola Willis, Deputy Leader of the National Party


“Equity is about ensuring women are not restricted from the rights, opportunities and aspirations available to men.  Equity doesn’t mean men and women are the same.  Our differences should instead be celebrated.  Rather, equity is about allowing men and women to express themselves fully, in all our diversity, in the knowledge that gender should never be a barrier to fulfilling our hopes, aspirations and potential.”



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Five shows At The Auckland Arts Festival I’m hanging Out For

Pictured above: Blanc De Blanc Encore

Sure it’s sad that Auckland didn’t get to have a summer but forget the weather; we’re so buzzed about this years’ Auckland Arts Festival being so full of colour and brilliance we believe it’ll work more therapeutic wonders than a month of sunshine.

Here’s a list of the many different forms of artistic expression you’ll find in the upcoming programme that runs from the 9th March to the 26th! Waiata, kapa haka, dance-theatre, comedy, cabaret, aerial, jazz, opera, kōrero, sand art, orchestral and chamber music, R&B, K-rhythm, afrofunk, light art, photography and visual arts, Korean pansori, puppets, fire, film, family, infrared technology, theatre, Chinese pole art, a biodegradable light event, and accessible performances. Honestly if you can’t find something to love in that list you should definitely never tick Arts on a list of activities.


Here’s my first five of what I can’t wait to see (there will be more)


Revisor


Crystal Pite is a choreographer with that rare combination of artistic vision, technical mastery, and emotional depth. Acclaimed around the world for work that leaves audiences breathless and affected. Her work Revisor is described in the programme as “a startling mix of action, comedy, pantomime and pre recorded dialogue  –full body lip synched by eight incredible dancers in high theatrical modeTypically dance reviews can get a bit technical but you know it’s gold when the Guardian reviewer simply starts with “ Astonishing, demands to be seen again”. Go on the first night in case you need to return.


The Gesualdo Six 


Choral music is like a rich dessert. A luxury that is rare.The Gesualdo Six, a British vocal ensemble made up of, yes, six, male singers take their name from the Italian Renaissance composer Carlo Gesualdo. If it’s one thing the British do well it’s sing in a choir. Who remembers the Queen’s funeral? Plangent, pure and ancient. The power of the choir.


The Picture of Dorian Gray


My mouth feels full just reading all the praise that precedes this one woman show – Immoral. Immortal. Immense. Hailed as a “dizzyingly beautiful tour de force” (The Guardian), The Picture of Dorian Gray is an odyssey of theatrical storytelling. Featuring a “brilliant, breathtaking, bravura performance” (ArtsHub) from Eryn Jean Norvill, and a performance by stunning cast alternate Nikki Shiels on Wed 22 Mar, this justifiably lauded play – which sees one actor play 26 different characters in an audacious cascade of theatrical transformations. Cannot wait.


Related article: A Renowned Composer Victoria Kelly Revisits An Ancient Musical Form


The Savage Coloniser


Tusiata Avia won the 2022 Ockham Award for poetry for her stunning book The Savage Coloniser and has partnered with FCC theatre company to bring all those gutsy poems to action. Stage directed by Anapela Polata’ivao and produced by Victor Rodger.

“With characteristic savage and stylish wit, Avia holds the word-blade to our necks and presses with a relentless grace. At the end, you’ll feel your pulse anew.” — Selina Tusitala Marsh, NZ Poet Laureate


Spark Auckland


No nothing to do with the telecommunications company but a night of a thousand stars presented as a spectacle for the senses. Dutch designer and innovator DaanRossegarde has invented this ‘organic floating light work” using environmentally friendly technology which will turn the night light into something that shimmers, glitters and sparkles and not a firecracker in sight. Bring a blanket, bring a friend and be grateful that we still get to have free events that remind us in a gentle way of how small we are in this infinite and wonderful universe.


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Georgina Beyer: “You’re a Bloody Superstar”

Georgina Beyer

Former politician and sportswoman Louisa Wall fell asleep listening to a podcast from LQBTQ+ trailblazer Georgina Beyer when Georgina died earlier this week.   

Georgina, who became the world’s first trans mayor and then the first trans to be elected to Parliament, was not only Louisa’s fellow colleague in the Labour caucus but she was also a role model that inspired Louisa’s own fight for equality. When Louisa found out that her friend and mentor had died, she wanted to hear Georgina’s voice as she slept.  

“She has pearls of wisdom that will continue to guide all of us. I wanted to be close to her and I did that by listening to her voice. I’m going to miss her spirit and her ability to be so articulate and passionate,” Louisa says, holding back tears.  

Georgina’s death has been felt all around the world. Tributes and an outpouring of sadness have been expressed since the 65-year-old passed away at a Wellington hospice yesterday. For years she had battled kidney disease and survived a kidney transplant in 2017.  The Carterton District Council, where Georgina spent two terms as its mayor from 1995, will be flying its flag at half-mast to honour her contribution.  

Related article: The Colourful Life of Louise Wall

“Georgie was surrounded by her nearest and dearest 24/7 over the past week, she accepted what was happening, was cracking jokes and had a twinkle in her eye, right until the final moment,” her friend Scotty Kennedy wrote on Facebook. 

“Farewell Georgie, your love, compassion and all that you have done for the Rainbow and many other communities will live on forever.” 

Georgina, whose iwi are Te Āti AwaNgāti MutungaNgāti Raukawa, and Ngāti Porou  was born in Wellington but spent her early years being raised by her mother’s family, the Tamati whānau, in Taranaki. As a youngster, she returned to Wellington with her mother and stepfather and spent most of her schooling years in the capital city.  

Before she became a mayor and forged a career in national politics, Georgina had a love for performance and wanted to pursue a career in acting. But she struggled to find consistent work because of the lack of opportunities for trans women at the time. She found herself working as a nightclub performer and a sex worker in Wellington.  

She did find the odd acting opportunity. Her performance in the short 1986 TV drama Jewel’s Darl, earned her a best actress nomination at the New Zealand TV Awards, becoming the first trans actor in the world to be a finalist in a best actress film and TV category.  

Georgina eventually moved to Carterton and became a radio broadcaster and a drama teacher for a community course. She was known to fight for and become a voice for the oppressed in the community, which led to her entering politics through local government. In 1995, she was elected mayor of Carterton making her the world’s first openly transgender mayor. Then in the 1999 general election, she won the Wairarapa electorate for Labour – becoming the world’s first openly transgender Member of Parliament in one of the country’s most conservative electorates. Her opponent during that election was National representative and controversial broadcaster, Paul Henry.  

Beyer was loved by her constituents and her wit and charm gave her an intimate and personal connection to the public. Her maiden speech is one of the most inspired speeches heard in Parliament and her tireless work played a pivotal role in decriminalising prostitution.  

“From a political perspective, Georgina was really clear and transparent about what she was wanting to achieve and why. She fought the good fight, and in a manner that was a direct challenge to those who had the power.” Louisa explains.  



“I know some people thought she was brash, that she was uncontrollable.  Everything she did was driven from a place of aroha and a sense of responsibility for using her voice to better the life outcomes for others who were less fortunate.” 

“I remember her being so glamorous, flamboyant and always well-presented. For me, and for her, that projection matters in the world. It’s a public reflection of how you see yourself. There’s a lot to be admired for people who have the ability to reflect that inner pride, especially in hostile environments.”  

Louisa says she was inspired by Georgina Beyers’s conviction and work ethic, especially for someone who had experienced years of abuse and oppression, and who had literally risen from the streets into the halls of parliament.  

“When you have a clear purpose, and when you’ve had to stand up for yourself and pick yourself up from so many hideous life experiences, and you still have the fortitude to fight for others, then that’s remarkable.” 

“I’m grateful to have the opportunity to work with her. We will mourn Georgina Beyer for a very long time. I don’t think we fully appreciated the significance of her work and how much of an anchor she has been for the emancipation of the LGBTQ+ people in Aotearoa, New Zealand.” 

Louisa’s last text to Georgina was last week when Louisa was in Sydney to attend the Pride Festival. The event paid tribute to Georgina Beyer by projecting her image on a big screen and Louisa wanted to tell her friend how loved she was.   

“You’re a bloody superstar,” read Louisa’s text.  

Georgina Beyer was that indeed – and more. 


Listen to Louisa Wall’s Tribute to Georgina Beyer here.

A Renowned Composer Victoria Kelly Revisits An Ancient Musical Form

Even weeks after the birth of twins, Victoria Kelly accepted a job she thought was too big to turn down: musical director for the 2011 Rugby World Cup Opening ceremony, working with 1000 musicians with an estimated audience of 60,000 at Eden Park, plus millions watching around the globe. 

Leaving a creative meeting, Victoria stopped in her tracks when the magnitude of what she signed up for dawned. “I thought, ‘how on Earth am I going to pull this off?’ I stood on the footpath for about five minutes trying to come to grips with what was ahead and, meanwhile, I had a toddler and baby twins at home!” 

After successfully shepherding that performance, nothing should overwhelm Victoria, 48, who has scored numerous New Zealand films, arranged music for musicians such as Neil Finn and Tami Neilson, performed with Strawpeople and The Bellbirds, and has written for the New Zealand Symphony Orchestra, the NZ String Quartet and NZTrio. 

So, during a global pandemic with the children schooling from home, Victoria took on another epic project: writing a secular requiem for orchestra, choir and soloists Jayne Tankersley and Simon O’Neill. An ancient Roman Catholic Mass and musical form, the requiem is intended to calm the souls of the dead. Its origins are religious, but Victoria is an atheist. 

“I attended religious schools, so religion was a daily part of my life. The musical legacy of the church is profound. Even if you’re an atheist, you can’t deny God as a powerful idea and presence in the lives of people.” 

Poems by Bill Manhire, Sam Hunt, Chloe Honum, Ian Wedde and James K. Baxter as well as the evocative images of photographer Anne Noble have inspired her because, she says, they talk about longing, wonder, the beauty of nature, love, loss and what it means to be alive. 

“Requiem explores those themes; I’ve taken fragments of the Latin text to use like auras around the poems as a way of recognising the ways people have sought to understand our place in the universe – but there’s no mention of God.” 


“I’ve taken fragments of the latin text to use like auras around the poems… there is no mention of god”


Victoria has long wanted to write a requiem, but her schedule was very crowded. “I became utterly exhausted as a freelance composer,” she says. “I became APRA’s Director of Member Services and instead of writing music myself, I worked on behalf of everyone else.” 

During 2020’s first lockdown, the family borrowed a grand piano from Lewis Eady so Ashley could continue his NZTrio work, which had the side-effect of unlocking Victoria’s creativity. When the piano had to be returned, the family found themselves “grieving the loss of it” so they bought a more modest one. 

“As the piece started to unlock itself after years of being an intangible idea, I realised I had to commit to it. But I couldn’t do that while working full-time, so I left my job,” she says. 

It is written for people Victoria has lost. A beloved high school friend, Daniel might have some musical talent, so her mother bought a second-hand piano. 

“I taught myself how to play it by ear; I started writing music. My first piece was called Jack Frost. It had three notes. I eventually had to have lessons .” 

The lessons continued through some challenging years but the support at Iona College, where she boarded, was tremendous. “The deputy principal once even tidied my bedroom at school when I was studying for a music exam, so that I didn’t get in trouble with the matrons!” 

One of those matrons, Nora Herron, used to drive Victoria to orchestra practice in Hastings. “They did everything they could for me to pursue music, which I think is an astonishing example of the power of teachers to make a difference in someone’s life.” 



Victoria Kelly at Auckland Arts Festival 2023 is unsurprisingly a sell out show! But this will be recorded and broadcasted at a later date.

‘Women Talking’ Movie Review

Subtlety is not a prerequisite for stimulating cinema. Some of the most satisfying political films trumpet their significance from the rooftop. Think An Inconvenient Truth, or We Need To Talk About Kevin. Women Talking from MGM has the subtlety of the Hollywood sign, but this is not one of the film’s problems writes film critic Theo Macdonald.

Set in 2010, writer-director Sarah Polley’s film takes place in the barn of an isolated Canadian Mennonite colony. The community’s women have discovered that the men have been using cow tranquilliser to sedate and rape them. For years, these women have woken to bruised thighs and bloody nightgowns, and the town elders have dismissed their suffering with insistence on ghosts, the devil, and female hysteria. But the women catch one of the men, the police arrest him, and the other men head into town to post bail. While the men are away, the women vote. Should they stay? Stay and fight? Or leave? The latter two possibilities draw, so eleven women from three families bunker down in the barn to resolve what action the collective shall take. 

Women Talking is a dialectical fable that restages the history of Western feminism, from Mary Wollstonecraft through Kate Millett, Susan Brownmiller, and Judith Butler. The film opens: “What follows is an act of female imagination,” establishing a philosophical intent liberated from the storytelling goals of Hollywood realism. The mothers with young children, Ona (Rooney Mara), Salome (Claire Foy), and Mariche (Jessie Buckley), guide the discussion. As none of them can read or write, the colony teacher August (Ben Whishaw) joins them to take minutes of this burgeoning feminist campaign. August, tender and sympathetic, has an unrequited love for Ona, a sorrow gliding underneath the debates.


WOMEN TALKING (2022) Rooney Mara, Claire Foy, and Jessie Buckley  CR: Michael Gibson/United Artists Releasing


This film is a morality play so crude in its need to assert contemporary relevance that at one point, a character says, “Not all men,” the hashtag used by feminists to spoof men who become defensive when women discuss sexual violence. Another character’s assault flashback includes shaky cam footage of the victim smearing blood on the wall, like a Slipknot music video. Rooney Mara gives a simpering smile and a rub of her pregnant belly with a regularity that suggests the editor is re-using the same footage. Much of the film has this modular quality, as if the scenes could be shuffled without meaningfully impacting the destination. Sometimes the women all break into laughter or song, moments of catharsis so calculated it makes you wince. The camera is supple, gliding alongside the women as they ponder and frown. A pity, then, that the colour is washed out and digital, making each moment distractingly resemble a television flashback.

Through their discussion, the women of this religious community develop principles concerning freedom from sexual violence, protection of children, access to learning, and the value of women’s labour. For the audience, this remembrance of 20th-century feminism could be a historicisation, a bolstering of the canon. Ona, Salome, and Mariche clash over thorny contemporary issues such as the moral responsibility of male children raised by a patriarchal society. Their mothers and younger sisters punctuate these debates with anecdotes and admissions of guilt. A highlight is seeing Sheila McCarthy, the star of indie-feminist classic I’ve Heard the Mermaids Singing, as elderly Greta, who likes to talk about her horses. 

Unfortunately, the lead performances have the truth of an insurance commercial. Each character delivers their lines in an identical thudding intonation, and the notion that these women are encountering their differing beliefs through conversation is rendered thinner when each woman speaks the same way, in lists, trailing sentences into streams of synonyms, as in, “We shall walk, wander, meander, step”. A generous viewer might interpret this idiosyncrasy as a consequence of an oral culture, but it also sounds like the screenwriter’s contrived idea of poetry. You can imagine Sarah Polley high-fiving herself as the characters deliver whammy after whammy. Sometimes one of them will cry to demonstrate the power of what another has just said. 

If this is a political film, we should evaluate it on those terms. The German playwright Bertolt Brecht, whose theories clearly influence Women Talking, believed political storytelling must educate the audience on the conditions under which they live. Yes, in its hamfisted way, Women Talking depicts the violence and disempowerment men subject women to. Whether these ideas demand this expression in 2023 is murkier. Women Talking is a film for people who have been so out of the loop the past five years of MeToo, let alone the decades before, that these ideas will be enlightening. But are these people buying tickets to an arthouse drama called Women Talking?

Eschewing Hollywood maximalism is a worthwhile experiment, and the impulse to express this story through the devices of minimalist theatre is a good one. Unfortunately, Women Talking stumbles on its execution, overwhelmed by cliched images, turgid dialogue, and clumsy performances.




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Is Going Under the Knife The Only Endometriosis Cure?

Image above from Everyday Health.

You’ve finally got a diagnosis for the debilitating pain that is endometriosis but going under the knife isn’t always the answer. What are your options for a cure?
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Dr Wynn Williams says having a diagnostic laparoscopy to diagnose and cure endometriosis isn’t the be all and end all and the medical community needs to move away from it. Radiological procedures like ultrasound scans and MRI pick up 20% of advanced endometriosis cases but New Zealand lacks experienced operators. 

“Standard operators will see a uterus, ovaries, and cervix but you need to know what to look for. It’s why we need to develop specialist radiology imaging centres around the country.”

A gentle vaginal examination and careful analysis of a person’s medical history can also lead to a diagnosis, he says. 

“It can be a big advantage to patients because you immediately can tell them about endometriosis and validate their symptoms. And you’ll often have patients crying on the end of the bed because they’re confirming immediately without having to do a laparoscopy.” 

The European Society of Human Reproduction and Embryology Endometriosis cure guideline was published in February 2022 and it no longer considers laparoscopy to be the ‘gold standard’ to establish a diagnosis, for example. 

Since the surgery, Cole has had to start from scratch. “Every doctor says I should go on birth control hormones and every time I tell them taking hormones makes my life feel not worth living. At no point have they thought, ‘maybe I should put that on her file.’ Being repeatedly recommended a treatment that threatens my mental health makes me feel invisible and unsafe in their care.

“It all feels like a big mess in my head because I still don’t have a clear path forward, I still feel pretty lost. It feels like the health system is trying to appear as though it is treating us, rather than actually acknowledging the gaps and treating us with respect and the latest information.”

Her issue is with the system, and not the people working in it, she says. “It just feels like the system is not set up to help them help me.”

The Ministry of Health’s Dr Robyn Carey says the best practice guidance around diagnosis and management was developed and launched in 2020. They help to focus support, improve consistency, and reinforce a standard approach. They were distributed to all DHBs and have since been marketed accordingly. 

“The Ministry strongly encourages all relevant healthcare professionals to familiarise themselves with the guidance so they can incorporate them into their care. 

“Through our discussions with a number of stakeholders, we know these guidelines are an important addition to help clinicians in the early detection and treatment of endometriosis.”

The Ministry also produced a webinar addressing the disparities in care, the latest evidence, updates in management, and how this impacts general practice, Carey says. 

The Compounding issues of Endometriosis

Rimu Bhooi’s life has also been hugely impacted by endometriosis. The 22-year-old was studying a Bachelor of Arts but decided to take the year off to recover and investigate what’s going on with their body. 

Five different GPs told them “it’s just a painful period. It’s pretty normal. It’s pretty common. Just take some Panadol or Ibuprofen and you’ll be fine”. After years of severe pain, they were referred to a specialist and had their first laparoscopy surgery within a year in 2020. 

Being non-binary, Bhooi’s experienced gender dysphoria as a result of constantly being misgendered by hospital staff around the country. 

“It’s been quite upsetting to have to explain to people, ‘this is the way that I want you to address me and these are my pronouns. Don’t call me a female or a woman, I’m not those things. I understand that I have those organs. But that’s not the entirety of who I am.”

The endometriosis was taken out, but since the surgery they’ve been to A&E clinics, emergency departments, and gynaecology appointments more than 20 times. They’re awaiting another laparoscopy. Until then, they use aids such as a walker and shower stool when the pain limits their mobility. 

“My life has become significantly smaller. I can’t walk around town for very long. I can’t hold onto a job. I’m home a lot of the time. I maintain relationships online and friends over for dinner but that’s been the extent of my social life.

“I don’t want to understate how debilitating this life-changing condition can be for people. But at the same time I’ve found incredible friends who have similar experiences and my worldview has changed. There’s a great deal of joy in my life.”

Meanwhile, they also have adenomyosis, a condition that’s similar and often occurs together with endometriosis – but unlike endometriosis it’s treatable by way of a hysterectomy. “I have one disease that’s curable and one that isn’t but at least I can cut out one source of pain.”

They won’t be getting a total hysterectomy if their ovaries aren’t too damaged by the endometriosis, which will keep their options open to have children. “But I think it would be really traumatic for my body to go through a pregnancy.”

About a third of patients with endometriosis may experience fertility difficulties, according to Endometriosis NZ. 

“I think the chances are a bit too high for me personally for my mental well being. There’s a whole lot of reasons that contribute to me wanting a hysterectomy, but it’s my choice.” 

Dr Wynn Williams says hysterectomies are an option for endometriosis sufferers, but it is important to recognise it’s not a cure. 

“It’s important for doctors not to be paternalistic. We see a lot of people who have been denied a hysterectomy but they don’t realise these people have spent a lot of time weighing up their options.”


Endometriosis Impacts on work 

After having to take several days off a month due to pain Mal Booth nearly lost her job. Despite having a medical certificate, human resources didn’t believe someone could be so frequently sick. The 32-year-old eventually resigned. 

“It had a huge impact on me. I was so scared to tell potential employers why I had left my last job and why there were gaps in my CV in interviews. You don’t want to say that you actually have been so sick you haven’t been able to work.”


Endometriosis survivor
Mal Booth


She had her first surgery in 2016. She’d been told that she had Irritable Bowel Syndrome and an intolerance to alcohol but the exploratory surgery revealed endometriosis had attached to her bowel. 

“Every time I’d go to the toilet I would be crying. The pain was so immense, it would bring me to my knees. Imagine period cramps but on steroids.”

After trying to get pregnant for a year Booth was told she would need another surgery to get rid of the endometriosis in 2019. In what felt like a miracle, she fell pregnant. Her son is now two. 

The endometriosis went into remission for a year following the birth but it came back. A second surgery in October last year found internal scarring on her bowel and uterus. She’s been on morphine tablets until two months ago, where she’s been trialing a chemical menopause implant. 

After three years of being unable to work Booth’s now working full time in an office. 

“It got to the point where my partner and I had to prioritise my quality of life. I’ve been pain-free for two months now. I feel great. It’s bittersweet because I’ve opened a whole can of worms. We’ll have to have some tough conversations when the trial comes to an end.”

For context, a 2019 study estimated that endometriosis costs Australian society AUD$9.7 billion annually. Two-thirds of those costs are attributed to a loss in productivity with the remainder, approximately AUD$2.5 billion, attributed to direct healthcare costs. 

The Ministry of Business, Innovation, and Employment labour inspectorate national manager Stu Lunsden says an employee is entitled to take 10 days’ sick leave if they have health-related symptoms and are unable to work. 

The legislation doesn’t prescribe what “sick” means. An employer can’t force an employee to have a medical examination but if there’s good reason to believe an employee is impaired, they may suspend an employee. 

Businesses can develop their own policies and initiatives above those needed to comply with their legal obligations to better support their workforce, he says. Employers cannot discriminate against workers on the grounds of sex, age, and health. 

One of those businesses is Hello Period, which employs a ‘Duvet Day’ policy that allows employees to take five additional days of leave a year, as needed. 

Founder and marketing director Robyn McLean says unlike sick leave, ‘Duvet Days’ don’t need to be justified. The policy wasn’t limited to menstruation because menopause is a big issue too. 

“We are a startup and so our staff work extremely hard and we want to look after them as much as we can. Obviously on the flip side startups have less money and ‘leave’ costs businesses money. 

“However, we’d be nothing without our staff so whatever we can do within our means to support them is important for us to do and in return we get staff who are loyal and work hard. It’s a win, win.”

Do staff abuse the policy? “The answer is absolutely not. I know they appreciate it – and we appreciate them.” 


Australia – a Endometriosis case example

In 2017, Health Minister Greg Hunt issued a rare apology to Australian women at the launch of the country’s first National Action Plan for endometriosis. 

“I cannot speak more powerfully than the beautiful voices that have told their stories today, the chronic pain, the infertility, the crushing mental health challenges, and in some cases the most tragic of outcomes, whether it is through the condition or through the mental health impacts.

“[L]et me say something on behalf of all of those in parliament and all of those who have been responsible for our medical system, I apologise.

“This condition should have been acknowledged at an earlier time in a more powerful way, and it will never be forgotten again,” he said. 

On top of objectives to improve public awareness, education, and treatment options, a targeted call for endometriosis research was issued under the Medical Research Fund to the value of $15m. 

Last month the Australian Government announced a further $58m fund under the national plan to fund specialist clinics, improve access to funded MRI scans, research scholarships, education programmes, and a digital platform to access evidence-based information.

Much of what’s been employed in Australia could and should be replicated in New Zealand, Dr Wynn Williams says. 

Taking into consideration the principles of Treaty of Waitangi, Improving awareness and education; improving clinical management pathways and care; and undertaking New Zealand-based research could completely change the landscape, he says. 


A (somewhat) success story

Radio New Zealand’s Susie Ferguson spent much of her twenties in the UK skipping her period while on different forms of the contraceptive pill and taking heavy-duty pain medication. 

Although she’s always had a high threshold for pain tolerance, she’s had to miss school, important events, and sometimes work because of painful periods. She’d use instant reusable instant heat packs – the type that you can boil to reset – and stuff them into the front of her underwear when the pain was so bad.

As a war correspondent Ferguson wouldn’t know how long she’d be away for, what situation she was going into or whether she’d ever come back. It meant she’d pack what felt like a  backpackfull of pain medication in advance. 


Endometriosis survivor
Radio New Zealand’s Susie Ferguson


She had a typical endometriosis diagnosis journey, she says, but it took far too many years to get there. 

“You go to various clinicians who tell you, ‘this is just part of being a woman’ and ‘you need to just get on with it’. Then you start to question yourself;  this is normal, are you wasting resources and what are you complaining about? Is it really that bad? Am I imagining this? Do I really need to be taking so much codeine?”

After being on a waiting list for four years in the UK she was formally diagnosed after a laparoscopic surgery.  She was frightened to go under the knife out of fear the surgeon wouldn’t find anything. Then like a lightswitch, she came out with a diagnosis and the pain was gone, she says. “It was fabulously liberating” 

She stopped taking contraceptive medication to have children. After two miscarriages she fell pregnant with her son at 31 and then her daughter at 35. She had an IUD inserted between her two pregnancies and after. 

The endometriosis came back when Ferguson’s daughter was four. The pain was searingly painful to the point where she’d be sweating while presenting Morning Report, she says.  

“It was as if I was six centimetres dilated. I can use this terminology as a yardstick because it was at 6cm when I was giving birth to both of my babies and I’d start sweating from the pain. It would be much harder if you were younger and didn’t have access to such a reference.”

After going through various hoops, the doctor gave her four options: do nothing; continue hormone treatment that was no longer working; have another laparoscopy; or have a hysterectomy. None of those options would guarantee it wouldn’t grow back. 

“I’ve had an extremely good experience with New Zealand’s public health system. It was like being hit in the face but in a good way. I’d expected to be given the same treatment that wasn’t working or that I was crazy, which was the case in the UK.” 

Two months later she had a hysterectomy. “I had no qualms about it. I didn’t want any more children. It was an easy decision because I didn’t have a sense of needing to hang onto [my uterus]. I am not sentimental about my body. It was a part of my body that had given me years of pain so if I had a shot at sorting it out, I was willing to take it.” 

Nearly five years later, Ferguson is pain free. 


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